Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,
Did you know that there are three key secrets to visualizing and rehearsing success with women? Do this right, and you will leap-frog past your old limiting self-image and beliefs and pull out into the fast-lane of seduction success. This is a fantastic “self-programming” pattern of seduction mastery that can carry you quickly into unstoppable confidence and really boost any affirmations or other work you are already doing.
On last Monday’s Coaching Call, I answered a student’s question about this topic. So as part of my ongoing “Spy On My Coaching Program” series, I thought I’d post the transcript of that part of the call right here on the blog. Please feel free to comment right here, once you’ve read it over.
Mark: I sent an email to the SS list last night. You sent me a reply this morning asking me what I do pre-sarge in terms of finality and things like that. My question revolves around Manny the Martian. Now it’s time to do the walk-up, and I still hold back from doing it.
Ross: What do you do for your preparation period before you go out to sarge? How do you prepare your mind for success? How do you prepare your body and energetic field to be the way you would like them to be with women? Do you have a preparation ritual or period that you go through?
Mark: I do, but it’s not consistent. Therein lies a little bit of the problem. I’ve been doing the affirmations on and off. I tied it in with some brainwave training from the LA seminar.
Ross: That’s very good stuff.
Mark: Yes, I’ve done pretty well. I’m just trying to work out how to tie it in.
Ross: That’s not the same as doing a vivid preparation before you step out the door. Do a ritual where you step into the tonality and body posture. Step into saying what you would like to say, the way you would like to say it. It’s also not the same as rehearsing success.
Let me give you a tip. I want you to rehearse success, very vividly. Stand up and move the way you would stand and move later.
Break down the rehearsal into three parts. The first part is what you do when you’re laying down or sitting in a chair with your eyes closed and listening to brainwaves. I’m all for that. I’m not saying that’s wrong. It’s good, but it’s not complete. I want you to keep doing it.
Separate and apart from that, when it’s time to go out sarging, I would like you to do something different to prepare.
I would like you to get into a nice state by doing some energized breathing. I’m sure I did something on ritual for the group. From the actual posture you will be in, stand the way you would stand. Speak aloud what you would like to say. Look the way you would like to look. Feel the way you would like to feel. Talk to yourself in the way you would like to talk to yourself in your head.
That little bit of rehearsal is the piece I think is missing. People always say, “See yourself in the way you would like to see yourself succeeding.” That’s all really good. I’ve done a video on this before, but I’m going to talk to you about this. I want to encourage you to take on different perceptual positions.
Here’s what I mean by “different perceptual positions.” You’ll immediately understand this very clearly and have a good grasp on it. It will sound very sensible to you as soon as I give you a description.
I know you watch TV shows. On a TV show, when two characters are talking, you see it from one characters perspective. Then you see it from the other characters perspective. Then they do what is called a “two-shot.” A two-shot is when you see both characters talking to each other.
When you rehearse success, take on different perceptual positions as you lie down or sit in a chair. Rehearse success, not only from your point of view, but from the other person’s point of view.
Imagine you can slide inside the girl and through her eyes see what she sees as she looks at you. In her head, she would say, “That guy is really cute!” Feel that flow of energy she has in her body when she says, “God he’s really cute. I want to talk to him.” Rehearse it from that perspective, and add something special to what you do.
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Ok. RJ here again. Was that great advice, or what?
Let me summarize what I taught Mark:
1. Create a preparation ritual
2. There are two kinds of preparation rituals:
A. The first way you are only visualizing and you do this in a relaxed state, seated or lying down.
B. The second way involves moving, standing, and speaking outloud, with the tonality, tempo, pacing etc. that you’d actually speak if you were in the situation.
3. Visualize success from different perceptual positions. Don’t just imagine success from a third party perspective. Imagine yourself succeeding through HER eyes.
Hope you enjoyed this; would you consider it repetive if I shot a video on this subject?
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. You can check out my Coaching Program here.
P.P.S. I’m not sure about this yet-we are brainstorming this. But I may create a Best Of Ross Jeffries Seduction Coaching Collection, Volume 1. This would be a 2-3 DVD/2-3 CD set with all of the VIdeo modules and all of the Coaching Calls, with PDF transcripts and Mp3 audios, from the past 9 months of the coaching program. So you get all the benefits of a complete set of my best teaching and answers to students, in many different formats for you to enjoy, OFF LINE.
Your cat Sarge thinks you give CATS a reason to wish you could only act in the good
nature as he has. And as do all cats.. YOU HAVE DONE YOUR BROTHREN WRONG!
Remember wasn't it the FALLEN ANGELS that seduced the daughters of man?
YOU ARE ACTING IN THE SAME NATURE. It's not too late PAUL.
Return the hearts of the children back to the Father.
Sincerely your sister in Christ Jesus, Candus Lea.
Uh, double up there on that Thorazine dose, would you, Candus?
RJ
lady, until you have walked in the shoes of a man in a feminist society who are supported even by bitch men, don’t talk. Yes, jesus is Lord and Savior, but men still want punani and women are to self-centered to even regard mens needs as valid. Boom… Read your bible, “men love your chicks, chicks respect your man…”
@Joel
Well said.
Hey Ross,
It's great to get a different perspective on things when it comes to females and how they think and on what levels too. Great advice!! Also to answer your question, I wouldn't think it was repetive to have a video of the same subject. Some guys may like to read, while others may not.
Yeah, I am convinced that the key to re-establishing myself as THE thought-leader and sense-maker in this community is to pump out fresh, high-value content, in the FORMAT people want to consume it, in the CHANNELS through which they want to get it.
Still working on the exact way to do this.
RJ
I think that it would not be repetive to shot a video on this subject rather would be more ilustrative since I can find even more details and 'd say that with a little more info about how this exercise is useful in other in a different activities not just in sarging.
hi ross i were just woudering if you have done your new magick course and put it on dvd yet?
i have commented here coz i didnt know where else to do comment
thanks
This is my personal seduction affirmation list. It’s mostly to help me be successful with women but also has a lot to do with having self-esteem, confidence and a healthy psychological state of being. Feel free to use it and share it with others. It took me a long time to build this list and I have found it extremely helpful. Using these affirmations has forever changed my life and I’m sure it will change yours too!
Everything in your life has to do with your psychological state of being. You are your thoughts and your thoughts are you. Change your mind and you change the world. Your external reality is nothing more than a reflection of your internal reality. Do not look out there, look within. Work on your inner self and inner world first then everything else will change for the better.
Perception is Reality. How you perceive the exterior world determines what your experience of it will be. These affirmations may seem outrageous because they are. Embrace them absolutely and completely, trust me on this one! The human mind cannot tell the difference between what is real and imagined. Being “delusional” is how you get good at life.
Beliefs of Naturals – My Reality
Read 3 times before bed and in the morning(do it for a for month) Record in the second person. Play recording on a loop continuously at a low volume(whisper). Play recording during the day and at night while sleeping.
1. Being with me is the best possible choice for any woman.
2. Women love men and especially love me.
3. I love life!
4. I am God. I am Perfect. This is my universe!
5. I am fearless, courageous and bold!!!
6. I read incredibly fast!
7. Women love sex and want sex from me.
8. My intelligence, creativity and potential is infinite!
9. I am exceptionally social and outgoing.
10. I am completely focused, organised and use my time with the utmost efficiency.
11. Women are nurtures and pleaser’s who want to nurture and please me.
12. I am an infinitely self-assured, confident, sexual and dominant male.
13. Everyday in every way I am better and better!!!
14. I have complete control over my life, mind and psychological state of being.
15. I am the greatest genius this world has ever seen.
16. I heal instantly!
17. I am successful, confident and achieve my goals. I exude infinite sex, power, confidence, happiness and self-love all the time.
18. I can be, do and have anything I want to in this world, my possibilities are endless!!!
19. I love myself! I am complete, fulfilled and completely happy!!!
20. I am growing more beautiful and luminous day by day.
21. Everybody loves me and all women want me! I make friends easily.
23. I access all the knowledge in the universe.
25. I am completely irresistible to women!
26. Regardless of how she is reacting to me she is getting aroused.
27. I see the underlying truth in all things.
28. I am an adventurer! I travel the world!
29. Regardless of how she is reacting to me I am the prize she is trying to win over!
30. I am a multi-millionaire and master seducer!
31. I love what I do and am richly rewarded, creatively and financially.
32. I have a perfect photographic memory! I recall everything easily.
33. Since she wants to have sex with me, the power is in my court to decide whether she lives up to my standards and expectations. I get to decide if we have sex.
34. I create my own reality!
35. Today I love my body fully, deeply and joyfully.
37. Today I open my mind to the endless opportunities surrounding me.
38. Prosperity surrounds me, prosperity fills me, prosperity flows to me and through me.
39. I have sex with super hot, confident, loving, caring and intelligent women with genius IQ’s all the time!
40. I think positively every day, all the time.
41. I attract amazing people.
43. My body is now trained to burn fat and build muscle day by day.
44. I have a six pack of abdominal muscles.
46. I am filled with the light of love, peace, happiness, power, success and joy every day, all the time.
47. I am aggressive, direct and powerful with the women I desire. I radiate a confidence, self-control and charm that women find irresistibly attractive.
48. My mind is focused on what I desire and I go for it congruently and powerfully.
49. I take immediate advantage of my opportunities with women. I swiftly establish incredible rapport, gather the information I need, then close with aggression, power and finesse.
50. I radiate a natural, easy self-acceptance that women find irresistibly attractive.
51. I am mastering the responses, attitudes, behaviours, insights and timing that bring me irresistible power with the women I desire.
52. I am now approaching women that I am attracted to.
53. I am able to pick up and attract any women I desire.
54. I am a strong, powerful, aggressive, dominant, alpha male, leader and conqueror!!!
55. I am smooth, charming, interesting and fascinating!!!
56. I have a perfectly sculptured muscle ripped body.
57. I am super hot and sexy, all women want me!
58. Abundance is my natural state of being!
59. Money comes to me easily and continuously from multiple sources!
61. My IQ and intelligence increases daily rapidly!!!
62. I have clear beautiful skin!
63. I have lucid dreams and recall all my dreams with complete clarity!
65. All things are now working together for good in my life.
67. I rule the world! I am brilliant and perfect in every possible way!
68. I succeed in everything I do!
69. I have sex with one thousand super hot women!
70. I am now enjoying everything I do and feel happy just being alive.
71. Sex with super hot women comes to me easily and effortlessly.
72. All things are now working together for good in my life.
73. I have the infinite creative power of God within me.
74. I am a Bad Boy, Player, Natural and Ladies Man!
75. I am a Sexy Beast! Everywhere I go women want to fuck me!
76. I have sex with supermodels daily.
77. Supermodels have an incredible desire to fuck me wherever I go!
78. I attract whatever I desire.
79. I am the most desirable man in the world. I am God’s gift to women.
80. Supermodels and incredibly hot women proactively, persistently and aggressively seek me out to fuck me.
81. Beautiful women are extremely persistent with me for sex.
82. What I believe is reality. Women experience me as extremely intoxicating, exciting and addictive.
83. I am a catch and out of her league, any woman that’s with me is very fortunate to have my attention.
84. Beautiful women are extremely attracted to me on a deeply subconscious level.
85. Women are perverted creatures who are always trying to fuck me.
86. Every morning I wake up in bed with twenty supermodels.
Attitude of the The Prize
You got to be a bit self-centered, a jerk and an asshole. The difference between nice guys and Alpha males: Nice guys place a woman on a pedestal, Alpha males place themselves on a pedestal. Just be Alpha and dominant. Chicks dig 50 Cent not Steve Urkel. Alpha males love themselves more than they ever could any woman on this planet. Always remember that you are more important than any woman on this planet regardless of how physically attractive she may be. You have high value and she has very low value. You are the Prize she is trying to win over. Perceive the world the same way Brad Pitt does, every high valued quality woman wants you but they’re just not good enough. Every woman on the planet wants you so why settle for the first thing that comes along? Your attitude should be:
“I am a catch.”
“I am out of your league.”
When I became self-centered, that’s how I got good with women. Always talk down to hot women!
Behave around hot women and talk to them as though they have very low value. Perceive her as a fat ugly chick. Talk to her and carry yourself around her the same way you would to a fat ugly chick. You are a catch, she should be trying to win over your approval!
Know that there are only ever two steps to follow to figure out anything in life.
1. Ask yourself “What works?”
2. Become that!
Uh..that’s a lot of self-talk just to get with a girl. And that Alpha Male stuff is bullshit. Who determines “value” anyway? who are you trying to convince?
WHICH chicks dig 50 Cent? And why the hell would you want a chick who is into a gangsta?
Why would you want to fuck who you can’t respect?
Work on it…