Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,
The other day here on my blog, I delved into what to do when the woman you are trying to “close the deal” with throws ice water on your Sarging efforts by dropping the “F-bomb” as in “let’s be friends.”
This is one of the timeless challenges for many smart guys like you who claim your skills, results, and future in succeeding with the women you desire. It struck a nerve with several people who wrote to me.
Here’s an interesting question that was posed to me – what do you do when she is willing to “only go so far” but gives a (seemingly) irrational response when you try to take things further?
A student of mine asked:
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I have a problem with this woman who lives in my residence. She is sexy like a pornstar. We have made out numerous times, and also watched movies together and cuddled each other on the bed. However, she is arrogant, and when I reach lower down on her body, she screams out.
She is scatter-brained most of the time and does not focus attention on some of the Speed Seduction patterns that I employ on her. Not only that, but she does not mind flirting with all the other guys in the residence – even when it’s right in front of me.
Can you help me out on how to go further with this chick?
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Great question! She’s not quite saying “let’s just be friends” but on the other hand, she’s not exactly saying “you’re the man I want to be with” either. It’s somewhere in the middle and you’re not sure where. Let me give you some questions to ask yourself and things you need to consider.
First, foremost, uppermost, and importantmost: EV-VERY TIME someone asks me what to do in situations like these, I always ask the same question back …
“Is she the ONLY succulent, amazing woman on the whole freaking planet???”
Remember: Speed Seduction® gives you the ability to powerfully sort through the women you encounter to quickly identify the women who are most receptive to who you are and what you give to the world.
If you’re properly applying my teachings, you’re quickly doing “Exit, Stage Left” with poor-fit candidates and focusing your seduction skills on women who respond to who you are and what you put out there.
Is it ok with you that she flirts with other guys in front of you? Do you hope that she’ll cease to flirt with other guys and focus only on you? And even more, is your self-validation dependent on her forgetting all your residence mates and focusing only on you?
What is it about her, other than her sexy pornstar-like looks, that attracts you to her? There’s some issue with her that she doesn’t want to go further than making out, hence these screams when you try to touch her “down there.” To figure this out, do you propose to become her psychologist and try to “figure her out?”
Or could your girl-getting power be exerted elsewhere finding another hottie (or hotties) who will scream with orgasmic delight when you touch them “down there”?
Find the answers to these questions, and I think you’ll know how to proceed.
Peace and piece,
RJ
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