Dear Seduction Masters-In-Training,
One of the unique elements of Speed Seduction(R) is my constant attention to how our social programming is designed to keep us stuck, stupid and scrambling around when it comes to enjoy the success and sexual satisfaction with women that we are all truly desiring.
You see, to have success in a challenging area of life, it isn’t enough to have a good “play book”. You also have to free your mind from the assumptions that limit how you see your possibilities.
To use a metaphor, if you can’t see the opening, you won’t be able to throw the ball into the hoop.
This video is part of my ongoing expose’ of the stupid social rules that keep us trapped.
Please comment and if you think this conversation is worthwhile, foward this post to your brothers who need to hear it.
WRITE BIGGER ON YOUR FLIP CHART. EVERYTHING ELSE IS JUST FINE! AS ALWAYS
The dinner will give her a full stomach and make her sleepy. She won’t want to bang on a full stomach. I know I at least don’t like to..
Ha ha. Yep, many a seduction has been ruined by an extra helping of pasta and sourdough bread and dessert.
I agree with you that if a woman is hot fu**ck her right away.
Right on the money as usual, Ross. 😀
hey ross, i’m loving your stuff but i seriously have a phobia about approaching women and as much as i listen to your advice i still cant do it 🙁 but enjoying your tips….if only i could use them, yours Tony
Tony,
People don’t “have” phobias. People DO phobias. You create them from your internal representations and physiology.
RJ
This is a dynamite, fundamental “breakthrough” concept to me!
Great video. Thank you Ross.
Hi Ross,
I have enjoyed all your videos i have seen so far, your advices and philosophy are very appliable to today’s American social life and dating reality. However i -as an old-fashion guy- have a question for you:-): How about if i want to date a decent girl that would not sleep with a guy “right away” (on a first date)?? how do i find out before i lets say even spend time trying pursuing her??
thank you very much
Have a nice day
Ross,
It would be great if you could give us some examples of what to do instead of taking a girl out to the movies or a restaurant…
I remember you mentioning that meeting at a coffee place is a good start…
Do you spend any money on a girl before banging her? lol
What if you use the restaurant as a vehicle to run some patterns on the girl and then bang her afterwards?
Bartosz
I’m a bit ambivalent about this one. I agree that dating’s an industry set up to lighten guy’s wallets, but you can defeat that just be getting creative. And the relationships with women that have slept with me from the get-go have tended to end sooner than the relationships where we had sex on the 2nd or 3rd date…naturally, other mileage may vary. Best, KK
Very interesting, so the place you take her is only as important as you make it.
I’d leave a message but RJ never comments on what I have to say so I’m going to pass.
Asking a woman “out to dinner” is just as unproductive as ONLY “asking for her number” at the conclusion of a good initial sarge. Asking her for either of those two triggers a pattern-like sequence she’s received from so many guys in the past. We must break free of such common rituals.
Suggest hanging-out again, follow me to this coffee place down the street, join me on my walk next evening through the neighborhood. It’s best to keep it simple during the early stages.
absolutely right, dont know what else to say
i have been applying this strategy for over four years now.it certainly ups my f results.-nathan
I LOVE THIS INFO ROSS – THAAAANK YOU!!!!!! “THE DINNER IS NOT GONNA GET HER TO FUCK U!!” LOVE THIS TRUTH
Ross,
You couldn’t have explained any better!!!
Thanks for being, thats all!!
Those that don’t get it, well, simply they just don’t f@@kn get it!!
Sarge on!!!!
I tell you, you are not far from the Kingdom of Sarge
RJ,
Really wise words, there’s no need to date her before fucking her, but you know, things seems to be a little bit complicated were i’m living, is not that easy, every single girl goes always for “what they see”, at least the first impression. But one thing i know for sure, and that, the master keypoint to be a seduction master, self-trust. You can learn many things from many people an all kinds of seduction methods, all sort of tricks, but without developing a really high level of self-trust, you’re doomed to failure and frustration, and that it’s a rule EVERYWHERE.
Now, i just wanted to ask you about one thing, hwat do you think of Mario Luna’s method with his SexCode?
It’s way different than yours, and i love your Style, but i just wanted to know your opinion, if it could be possible.
Yours, Dargor.
PD: By the way, can you give an advise or do you know if it’s possible to recover a woman that really hates you, it’s with someone else and doesn’t want to know a S**T about you?
Thanks again,
Yours, Dargor.
Good take on social rules. Most of your stuff on sarging works well. You have to watch for the signs and work with that if you want to get laid and the woman is open and willing. It gets a bit more difficult as one gets older though and you want more than just to get f**ed.
Think about that.
“social rules act like hypnotic commands” – i think thats what you said, wow, i mean i never realised because ive never really thought about it UNTILL NOW. but its obvious to me now just how much we are conditioned to believe what we are capable of, when really there is so much more! thanks ross, you are helping to open my eyes.