Do You Move On, Or Let It Drag On?

Dear Seeker of Success,

Going through my lovely mail bag, I have here a question from a student who just purchased Rapid and Total Success With Women, barely had signed for the package delivery before he logged right in and started watching the streaming videos, and starting getting more women so fast it’d make your head spin.

Here’s his question:

Now that I’m connecting with a few new women, how do I move from one to the next? As they say “breaking up is hard to do.”

What do you have for me that talks about letting them down easy? I mean, I could just be an a$$hole and stop calling them, but that doesn’t seem like the adult thing to do.  Is there a pattern, or something I can use as a way to “move on?”

First, foremost, uppermost, and important-most, let me ask you a question.

If you woke up one morning to learn some unknown rich relative had left you a billion dollars and it was sitting in your bank account right now, how easy would it be to change your lifestyle?

I bet you’d be driving to your realtor’s office THAT MORNING in your brand-new Porsche, calling your boss from your cell phone on the way there to tell them you quit, to sign the papers for your new mansion, just in time to pick up your favorite chick to meet your chartered private airplane for 2:00 lift-off for a dirty seven-day weekend in Vegas.

You wouldn’t spend much time explaining it in great detail to every single person you know.  Because that would just be holding you back…correct?

Another question: has a woman ever stopped returning your calls?  Told you simply “I can’t see you anymore” without offering any explanation at all?  Whether or not turnabout is fair play, is it the way of the world?

I don’t know how many exclusive relationships you’ve been in, but assuming you have, when you “went exclusive” with a woman, how much time did you spend individually explaining the change to the other women in your life?  Or were you now totally busy with your new girlfriend?

In your concern, I gather a need to explain yourself.  That shows you are a decent person who cares for the feelings of others.  Now, I challenge you: would you not also be showing concern and care  by being polite but clear and direct in letting these other women know you’ve moved on, without dragging it out?  This way, they know THEIR more likely options lay elsewhere and THEY can “get there” faster?

Spend your Sarging and patterning energies getting more of what you DO want.

Peace,

RJ

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