Where you place your devotion can be as fulfilling – and as dangerous – as where you place your tallywacker.
It can take you down a bad road, as I reveal in this video:
Peace and piece,
RJ
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Absolutely true. For my own experience I can tell that “giving all of you” and doing favors to a woman, thinking that she will be atracted by you because of that is a fatal mistake and cause so much suffering. She will only see you as a “buddie”, not as a lover.
The audio is not really good, you can hear just from the left headphones…
anyway, greate stuff…
Hey Ross, great video man. Solid gold, I’ll eventually travel to see some of your seminars 🙂
These days I watched a movie that portrays so exactly what you say about devotion being over the top. It’s “Two Lovers” with Gwyneth Paltrow and Joaquim Phoenix (the emperor guy from Gladiator).
I mean it’s kinda painful to watch the movie as it portrays so well a guy who goes beyond where we would like someone to go. And well, I guess he should have watched this video here or gone to one of your seminars hehe.
Cheers,
Andrew
That´s why screening for her investment is so important… there´s a difference between being devoted to a woman and being dedicated to build a communication with a woman.
No doubt. Don’t be nice to women. That’s what they have their girlfriends for. Although, just saw a female friend’s FB post about her BF’s Infinite Heart and Boundless Kindness or some such, so there is context, context, context, repeat it until you are always aware of it! Also OMGWTFBBQ!
@Zara Did I say “don’t” about ANYTHING in this post? I said to balance…not to avoid.
Ross, I am somewhat confused by this statement. I suppose a little more context is necessary. Are you saying that this type of devotion will not get one what he wants sexually? Which I agree with. Or are you saying that there is problems with devotion over all? As in we should avoid using it, if at all?
@Justin I am saying that devotion has to be balanced with dominance and adoration has to be balanced with aggression. And that whom and where we give our devotion is important and not to be done thoughtlessly.
@RJ This is the way I’m sarging my latest female. First, I’m breaking two of my rules as she works where I work, and she’s a club girl (as in night clubbing), and she’s also about a 9. She came in one night from clubbing in her dress, and although I’m not too into visual fetishes, I did think, wow. I work in IT and we have two windows looking out at the employee entrance. I’ve seen her before, hanging out with her friend (who may be a full 10), and they both hang out with some young guys there who are good-looking, but the guys are no match for these girls in sophistication. They are playing with these guys, leading them around by the nose. It’s fun to observe. I like the 9 girl better then the 10 as she has this real big, natural smile, and has a bit of the playful imp in her. I just love playfulness in a woman.
Whenever she or her friend saw me making my checks once or twice a shift, they would just totally ignore me or in the 10’s case give me a mildly negative look. After seeing C ( I’ll call he C here) come in that night in her dance club dress I decided to pull out my Huna abilities on her. I teased her lightly and playfully about her “infant” boys she hangs out with every night. This was at a distance, obviously, as I had no way of talking with C a long time while doing work, at least at that point. The slightly aggressive suggestion was that I could be much better than those boys, no matter how much macho they attempted to project. She gave me a funny look the next night after when coming into work, and later she stopped me to talk to me while I was doing my checks. After getting back to my desk, I started sending out vibes to her along the line of, “You need to come out and play with me.” I was going off the “read” that she has a playful spirit too.
This all worked super. She stops me and flirts with her eyes and voice (she has a nice one), and ask me to go dancing with her. I turned it around and said, “Why don’t we go to the mall soon and you can help me pick out some silk sheets, and some scented candles that you would like. She has stopped by my area in the office (this is on midnights, and there is no one else there) twice already, and C has no business to do in the office. We’ve kissed intensely several times in the office, and the energy is almost as good as sex itself.
Her friend, I’m trying to make friends with, and send her compliments to her beautiful hair. The 10 now smiles at me when I go by, but she hasn’t talked to me yet.
One of the greatest pieces of wisdom Ross has ever posted. The content is critically important, but the underlying message of considering which emotional state you evoke with your behaviour even more so.
The comment about boundaries, kowing where you end and the other person begins is also huge, though mentioned in passing. Screw this up, and your dead.
Thanks Ross.
Nick