Dear Seeker of Success,
One of the most powerful tools in the world for personal change is simple RECURSIVE Focus.
This means, returning again and again to the object of your chosen awareness after periods of being focused elsewhere.
Without focus there is NO devotion.
Without devotion, there is merely focus that goes nowhere to no end.
Now, what are the things that distract from focus?
1. Unrealistic expectations. You try something once, expect it to work perfectly well or to perfectly execute it and then when it doesn’t, you give up.
2. Great luck. Something works exactly right, the first time, so you give up practicing and stick with the first success!
3. Ultra-creativity. You’re so super-creative you can’t/won’t bring yourself to repeat the same thing over and over until you reach mastery. For years, this was MY greatest stumbling block.
Don’t get me wrong: you can and SHOULD adopt the material to the unique situations and unique women you are meeting, for sure!
I’m simply saying, once you create something that works, keep practicing it so you have it down before you move on to the next thing!
TRUST ME ON THIS!
The more you gain your recursive focus, the more you get laid.
4. Failure to properly schedule/allot the time. Perhaps you have bad organizational skill. Learning to plan is important.
5. Lack of physical energy/fatigue. Ya can’t sarge if your clock is all run down from bad diet, no exercise, no sleep, etc. Be good to the biological robot that you operate!
6. Distractions from environmental demands – work, family issues, etc.
7. Fear of failure.
8. Fear of success.
9. Not knowing how many tests/repetitions constitute a fair try.
10. Lack of proper encouragement/guidance/feedback support/mechanisms.
Notice That NOWHERE Here Did I List
“Not Understanding The Material”.
For most guys, I would say 1-4 are the dominant interruptions.
And number 9 is probably VERY, VERY common.
Which is it for you?
Please, sound off with a comment below.
Peace,
RJ
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5. My regime is often upside down. I can work any time. I can do anything anytime… Too much freedom and at the same time it’s all on me, all up to me…
Very late person. Sometimes get so focused on things that forget about my body and get sick (all from the mind)… So pay attention to my body and physical health now… But regime is a challenge. There must be a way
Awesome addition!