Meeting Women In Clubs: Mission Impossible?

Dear Seeker of Success,

Personally, I don’t think bars and clubs are an optimal environment to meet women.

But let’s set that aside for now.  There’s something bigger we need to deal with.

One of the drills I do at the beginning of many of my seminars and talks  to ask if there is anyone in the room who is VERY good at meeting women in bars and clubs, but has trouble approaching women on the street, indeed, finds it IMPOSSIBLE to approach women on the street.

We’ll call him Brother A.

Then I ask if there is anyone who is VERY good at street approaches, but who finds approaches in Bars and Clubs IMPOSSIBLE.

We’ll call him Brother B.

Then I have them come up to the front of the room and argue with each other.

Brother A explains to Brother B why bars are easy and why street approaches are hard.

Brother B explains why the street is a snap but bars and clubs are IMPOSSIBLE.

Then I ask the audience…

“Who Is Right? Who Has The Objective TRUTH?”

Then I have the guys switch places and argue for the other guy’s position.

Brother B has to convince Brother A why the street is impossible but Bars and Clubs are easy.

And A has to convince B that the Street is easy but Bars and Clubs are impossible!

Then I ask the audience, who by now is VERY confused,

“Who has the TRUTH?”

You see, above all, your beliefs about something will determine how you view it, the meaning you give it, the possibilities you can consider and what you can do and what you will get!

The reality is, bars and clubs and the street are just situations; they may require some different spins, but fun-dumb-mentally, it’s the same thing.

And fundamentally, your beliefs determine what skills you can get access to and practice, what awareness and energy you can bring to bear, what you notice, etc. etc.

So next time a limiting pattern of thought comes up and you find yourself picturing rejection or failure or something being “impossible” just remember this illustration of the 2 guys arguing and ask yourself…

“Wait a minute… do I really want to invest this way of thinking with TRUTH? Do I want to make THIS my truth, or would I rather be best served by just going for it and finding out?”

What’s it gonna be?

Peace,

RJ

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