Dear Seeker of Success,
Has something like this ever happened to you?
You approach a woman for the first time and open conversation.
After talking for maybe eight minutes or so, one of her friends comes in.
She starts talking to them.
Next thing you know you’re out of the loop.
If they don’t outright excuse themselves from you, it becomes clear the circle of conversation now excludes you.
It raises the question:
What are the elements that need to be there in the initial conversation so the woman will want to continue talking to you, even when people she knows show up?
First Things First:
Don’t Act Like An Alien
The first thing you need to do is draw her attention out so she’s interested in talking to you.
Get her attention focused on you in a positive way so she wants to be receptive to the rest of your message.
This means, don’t go up to a chick and say, “Hi. Have you ever felt an amazing connection with someone?”
She’ll look at you like you’re from another planet – and rightfully so.
The Questions About Her You Need
To Be Asking YOURSELF
What are the elements that make her want to continue talking to you?
Maybe it’s comfort or curiosity.
Maybe it’s because you’re entertaining her in some way.
Maybe it’s because you intrigue her or pop her curiosity.
For example, I was at a restaurant and noticed one of the waitresses carried herself like a martial artist.
I said to her, “Can I ask you a question? Do you fight? Can you do the martial arts?”
She was quite surprised.
She said, “Yes. How did you know that?”
She leaned forward onto the table.
Before, she was standing back away from the table.
Once I said that, it really got her attention.
The REAL Goal Of The
First Question
The goal is, therefore, not how to get her available to be seduced.
The goal is, what you can do to evoke responses so that she wants to keep talking to you.
How do you create that curiosity and initial sense of maybe feeling understood or feeling entertained?
That’s the piece so many guys miss when they just jump right into the seduction talk, which is never how I intended it to be.
Peace,
RJ
P.S. Among the many girl-getting skills to be revealed at our September 8th and 9th London seminar: how to use anything in the environment or situation you’re in right now to always know exactly what to say to women.
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I just wanted to say I used the “I picked the wrong place to be gay” opener on an elevator full of girls (I was really scared before I said it but said screw
It I’m doing this) and they busted out laughing and the big
Knocker blonde I had my eye on said “that’s the coolest thing I’ve ever heard anybody say
My whole life” and meant it. This was in Pasadena- La women are awesome I’m from the east coast (unfortunately) and I really believe west coast girls really do have a greater sense of intrigue and are more open to playing fun word games than other parts of the country. You guys out West have it made- I love the West coast.
Ps- sargers you need to check out San Bernardino and Ontario I’ve seen so many fine Mexican girls over that way I can’t believe Hustler or
playboy don’t just have. Recruitng office there. There are some HOT Mexican women in the Inland Empire.
@Joe You know, I haven’t used that line in a long time. I have to try it again.
Overall, never underestimate the power of being outrageously absurd to overcome a block or barrier or PERCEIVED block or barrier.
RJ
“I picked the wrong place to be gay” can be used anywhere on a solo women or group..great at implying she is hot>>>>
You also have situations where a friend girl or guy will interfere on purpose, harder to deal with
Most of the time they DO interfere on purpose. Their motivation could be one of any of a myriad of reasons. It doesn’t matter. What matters is intriguing the original woman.
Hi, I managed to entertain whole groups of women before any seductive special speeches. My best I think was a group of six and they were all very welcoming and excited to have they’re handwriting analyzed. A group of six women leaning towards you is an incredible sensation. Not to Bragg. …well maybe a bit. Fact is it works. .
It’s not bragging if it’s truth.
Good on you, sir!
Sometimes her female friend (or male friend) will interfere because she is dating another guy and she doesn’t want to see you get sargey success and stick her smelly you know what in and run interference. Never know what to do then
All the more reason this article is important. The more you give the original woman cause and desire to spend time with you, the less influence her friends potentially have to easily whisk her away.