Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
Human beings suffer because we get pleasure and want more of it……
…..and then it’s taken away from us.
Or, we have pain, resist it, and don’t want it.
Listen: it is absolutely guaranteed that even if you stay together in a relationship, there’s going to be some hurt.
Even in the best relationships that work and last for decades during a lifetime, there’s always some hurt.
There’s not a relationship that I know of that’s happy and good that doesn’t also include some fighting and pain. If you’re afraid of getting hurt, you might as well give up on a good relationship too.
Yet, There’s Not (Necessarily)
Any Harm In That
“Hurt” happens when you’re open and tender to someone. Occasionally, people accidentally, without meaning to, step on your emotional toes.
“Harm” is when someone cheats you deliberately and knowingly. That’s different.
Harm can be avoided, but hurt can’t.
You’re not a harmful person.
That said, I promise if you get involved and deeply like each other, one way or another, one or the other or both will accidentally hurt the other.
Embrace it – and move forward.
Or reject it – and reject yourself.
Your call.
Peace,
RJ
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I think this post speaks to the duality of life. I’ve been told that you can’t have love without hate, war without peace, nice without mean etc.
Right @Kevin
I’ve never seen you give relationship advice before, very interesting.
@Oleg
You can apply this to relationships, but my intention for posting it was to further inform on the earlier topic of what happens when she says she’s been hurt before.
Guys will respond to her saying that by trying so hard to be “safe” he bores her to tears. Understanding that “harm” and “hurt” are two different things creates a new way of looking at this.