Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
What kind of energy or attitude do you bring into approaching women?
How are you demonstrating that you’re playful about this, rather than treating it as a task that you have to do well at?
How are you bringing the quality of playfulness into whatever you’re doing, whether it’s Snack Quiz, Roller/Folder/Tosser, or any of the other patterns I describe on video?
How are you conveying playfulness and warmth with your voice and facial expression?
During The First 5-10 Minutes,
It’s About Being Charming
Part of being charming is bringing playfulness and warmth into the interaction.
The first five to 10 minutes is to create a mood of her feeling like she’s enjoying herself, she’s relaxed and comfortable, and that she feels a little bit pulled towards you.
- What do you do with your voice, the emotional tone you put to your voice, the depth of your voice, and the speed at which you’re speaking?
- What do you do with your facial expressions and body language to convey to them that you’re playing with her?
Notice her responses.
What does SHE do to indicate that she’s feeling playful and she’s drawn towards the interaction?
Until you grasp that and it becomes a major element in your understanding, it’s sort of like you’re going through the Sargy motions.
Peace,
RJ
P.S. This can be the very best year of your life when it comes to your utter satisfaction-sexually, physically and emotionally-with the women you truly desire. Much of what you need to make that happen is right here.
