Dear Seeker of Success,
Fear and obsession are two sides to the coin – inasmuch as they both involve congealing around experience, either tightening against it and tightening around it.
What’s the groovy edge of the coin?
A very Magickal state called non-attachment/non-disinterest.
We’ll get there when we go into ritual, but I want to say this for now: it’s one of the reasons why we do sigils.
Have you ever noticed if there’s a woman and you’re not chasing after her – you sort of like her, but you give her her own space; you’re not disinterested, but you’re not attached either – doesn’t it always make it a lot easier for her to come to you?
On the other hand, if you’re barking after a girl chasing her, you’ve got to have her attention every second, what happens? That critter go into the shitter.
True?
That State Of Non-Attachment (You’re
Not Attached, But You’re Not Disinterested
Either) Is A State From Which We Can
Do POWERFUL Things
I get it: this is contrary to what you’ve been taught.
Think of stupid s&%t like The Secret: just keep visualizing what you want and think about it all the time.
The problem is when you do that, all of your unconscious resistance, all your conflicting desires, actually GET IN THE WAY of claiming and experiencing your desired results.
When we think about things too much, all our complexes – all the driving of ego and all the congealing around it – just get in the way.
Now, About Those Cookies
(I’m About Ready For Dessert,
You Know)
Have you ever tried to bake something?
When you bake cookies, what happens if you’re constantly looking in the oven to check on the progress? You take all the heat out of the oven. The cookies don’t rise.
(No dessert for you, Buckwheat.)
As I’ve told my students for years: don’t fuck up my dessert!
Magickally yours,
RJ
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This has always held true in my experience.
Student product request. A Speed Seduction audio pack that contains Ross using his top 20 patterns in the real world so we can hear how this stuff sounds in the real world versus a seminar. This would provide natural sounding templates per major language pattern. It would also allow us to pick up many things that happen in a real interaction that are difficult to learn in a seminar and that can only be absorbed through listening to a real life example.
Peace and Piece to you as well
John
@John
The Deluxe Home Study Course contains the Advanced Skills Builders audios. Is that what you were seeking?
How can we stop these fear / obsession thoughts from happening? Sometimes they come so suddenly without any warning. Is ‘no thoughts’ the right goal to set or what we really need is skill at feel because it may not be possible to reach a state of no fear and no obsession. Also would non attachment and non disinterest a state you need to sustain by regular ritual or is it something you can reach and once you do, you have it forever?
@Harsh
Meditation has a good bit to do with it. So does the Inner Game curriculum.