Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
As a teacher, I am dedicated to helping smart guys like you apply Speed Seduction® toward all girl-getting situations. For you, it’s a matter of you mastering my teachings and applying them to your own situation to make life work for you.
Now…what happens when you want one thing…but she has other goals in mind?
A student of mine who got “stuck” while in the process of getting her hot and bothered asked me this:
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I realize that every woman is different and needs/wants different things to feel fulfilled.
I have found that women want either a Relationship / Connection OR a Fling / Adventure. Showing them the incredible potential of the AND, by being Bed Buddies, is my present continuing goal.
Different types of women (or women at different times or stages in their lives) will prefer one or the other; yet the idea of Bed Buddies doesn’t seem to appeal to them, nearly as much. They view it as a compromise – not as intimate as a relationship and not as exciting as a fling.
So how can I present this frame in a more appealing way?
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The kinds of themes you introduce in your Sarge will help steer things. For example, I wouldn’t talk about values in relationships with someone who just wants a fling.
In fact, why define the “relationship” upfront? Leave it open and tell the truth – that you’re open to the potential of ANYTHING, and at this point, all you promise is that you never want to do anything unless you and her are both totally certain it is what you want and are totally comfortable with.
If the most incredible, mind-blowing babe came along that so totally impressed me and met my needs and values, and wants and desires…HELL YES! I WOULD hang up my Speed Seduction® guns..at least for a while…and “bed-buddy” it up with her!
That’s a good place to start. It will open the doors for you to practice frame control to steer her in the direction you want her to go with you.
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. Once you get the doors open by being honest and open-ended, how would it go for you if you had word for word seduction patterns that induce permanent behavioral change in the women you desire, allowing you to mold them to the exact erotic specifications you require, demand and dream of? Meaning if you want a Bed Buddy, you can make her your Bed Buddy?
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