How To Get Her When She Has A Boyfriend

This is a nice little short beginning for a situation she could enjoy in the near future but come on, i have heard much better things about handling the boyfriend situation from you. This will not probably “convince” her to go for what she could have with me.
In case she has a real boyfriend – so we do not talk about an auto response to get rid of the guy who goes for the phone number or anything stupid like this – in my opinion you have to come up with something much stronger. Give her the feeling she has found just right now someone much better than her old borefriend and additional get her rid of the feeling to be a cheating slut when she jumps on your boner. That’s the most common feelings women present me when they mentioned “I have a borefriend…”.
To tell her “Ok, you do not have to convince me that someone else find you attractive…” is to much cocky and funny for me. Sounds like i come up with something only to move my lips. There is no really intent behind it – isn’t it?
And please do not lead with this topic into the same old ethical discussion about playing with her love. If she is really into her boyfriend your chance is zero to get her hot and horny. On the other hand do you really care if you do not get laid for two years or more? Not all…

Thanks for the informative remarks and information, I will use this when it is presented to me.

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Ross !
How about stop using that CRAPPY Ustream ?

Why would you want to seduce a woman who already has a boyfriend?

Unless you’re looking to attract a dishonest, untrustworthy liar…

@Stephen: How can you ask such a question? We are not all in the age of 16 😉 Most women I meet are in their late 20s or beginning 30s and more than 75 percent are in any kind of relationship. But guess what…after you speak to them, most women tell you they are unhappy, their boyfriend treat them like shit or anything else. So I am the perfect opportunity for them to bring some adventure into their life…yes someone has to do this job 😀

Exactly my point!

A woman who is with a man who treats her like shit and makes her unhappy? A women with low self esteem and who is dishonest…

Each to their own I guess!

Stephen,

I’m not saying that you should or that you have to seduce women with boyfriends.

I think you are viewing this in black and white terms and what I am trying to say to you is that the very notion of “boyfriend” may mean something entirely different to any individual woman who uses it.

She may mean, by “boyfriend”: “Thanks for your attention, but I’m with someone who really loves me and whom I really love. I’m totally fulfilled, but good luck”.

Or she may mean, “You are hitting on me too fast. I don’t know what to say or do. Here comes my autopilot response of BOYFRIEND; my magic chant that will cause you to go away, or slow down and give me more time to think”.

Or she could mean, “I’m ok with the guy I’m with but he’s kind of boring. Can you show me something better?”

My job as a teacher isn’t to tell you how or what to think. But I can point out how your definitions-your map of what is going on-may not be complete and may be deleting possibilities and situations that you have not included in your thinking.

Not that your thinking is wrong; it may merely be incomplete.

I’ve known MANY women who are neither “low self-esteem” or “dishonest” but are simply at the tail end of a relationship that has run its course and they are ready for something more fulfilling.

But it is up to you to look at your thinking and ask yourself if it is really including all the possibilities.

And even an incomplete map is still useful. If you want to go “North” your map needn’t include every turn or twist or road. Just the arrows going the right way.

Peace and piece and check out my coaching program:

http://www.speedseduction.biz/coachingpromo

RJ

P.S. Also I urge you all to check out my revolutionary 3.0 course:
http://www.speedseduction.biz/30promo

hey ross.. is this all bs or does this stuff work.. I mean I’m really interested in a chick who say she has a bf when i asked her to come out with me and some friends to a party… is she wanting me to get lost. How do i be cool and turn it around? oh yeah i’m 37 she is 20 and soo hot..

Harvey,

It is your own experimenting that will tell you if it is BS. It never ceases to amaze
me that people think that anything I say will convince them.

I’m giving it away for free. Go be an adult and try it for yourself and see.

To answer you: it absolutely works for me, works for my students, and it ought to
work for you, but NOTHING works all the time.

Do you understand the PRINCIPLE and CONCEPT I am explaining?

What is it about the concept and the idea-setting aside the exact working for a moment-that seems unsound or unworkable to you?

RJ
http://www.rjcoaching.com

Hi Ross!
bought one of your e book courses a couple of years ago then lost it last year when my computer died on me!
just wanted to say i have managed to use what i could remember to some good effect but have hit a stumbling block with one particular woman.
have known her for a few months through my work and seemed to hit it off well with her. when i told her i was leaving she started to ask all sorts of questions and i got the feeling she was sad she wasnt going to see me again. was in a hurry to be somewhere else and had a real hard time getting away from her.
couple of weeks later had to ring her about something else and asked her out for a coffee, got the feeling i had put her on the spot and she said she couldnt as she is with someone, i laughed and said never mind ill just ask her again next time and she said she was flattered.
since then she sort of keeps bumping in to me, almost crashed her car to stop to talk to me one day, and another time rang me at home about something work related. ( not sure how she got my number!)
how do you recomend i should progress from her?
would appreciate any pearls of wisdom you could bestow on me,
thanks stuart.

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