Dear Seeker of Success,
A student of mine asked me what to do when dealing with women who knew him before he became a Speed Seduction® Master.
In other words, back when he was an Average Frustrated Chump (AFC) who got in his own way when it came to succeeding with women.
Now that he’s speaking to them in ways that capture and excite their deepest emotions, aren’t they going to feel strange when they compare it to how he used to act with them? How they used to feel around him?
I immediately asked him,
“If you suddenly won the Euro Lottery and went from having no money to having $500 million, would you worry about how other people adjusted to it? Would they have a problem adjusting to it?”
I don’t think so.
In the same vein, how you present yourself to the world now is what matters most. Who you create yourself to be and how you communicate through that is infinitely more important than how others used to see you and even how you used to see yourself.
Remember, you alone control the vibe you put out to the world. Do this, and that hot chick from college who shot you down as an Average Frustrated Chump will quickly learn to see you as an Amazing Fascinating Champ.
I’ve been both. And I can tell you Amazing Fascinating Champ feels a whole hell of a lot better.
Peace,
RJ
P.S. Remember, it’s not about who you were then. It’s about who you design yourself to be right now. All of this is completely under your control. Find out how here.
Hey Ross, this sounds quite like my situation.
and it's about time I asked you about this sticking point…
I grew up always being able to make good friends
and have friends in many various social circles.
But because of this, and because I work in the public eye.
I'm always cautious of my reputation.
Since getting schooled with your material,
it's actually helped my social game.
I meet girls all the damn time,
able to get interest, and build up this tension,
even with a high school crush I saw out just last night.
but even as things are building up, and I feel their interest,
I still have this reservation of taking things
to a sexual level.
because it's backfired so many times,
I don't want to risk the rep amongst mutual friends
who have always seen me more as a safe social friend.
before saying, 'go to new places',
(I've tried that, and just end up making more good friends)
how the heck do I get over this reservation,
and re-design my self to be a fascinating champ who gets laid
within my social circles?
Your good advice is much appreciated.
– Sutra –
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cwda7YWK0WQ
The link above is to a youtube video of “functional MRI”s.
I know you'll enjoy this Paul.
Think of the implications of being artfully vague…
P.S. It's also just a little bit terrifying.
I think reality it’s perceived in the same way of illusions, in the same area of the brain. If she perceives her previous identity (in the sense of Kant’s category), it means the old one is still present and she connects with that one. Actually he is still letting the old girl hypnotizing him.