Answering Extremely Rude Women

The truth is often the most effective response to women being rude. Because it usually makes them come off as some psycho-bitch. And in a club or bar type setting, all the people around who see this exchange will see her as being unnecessarily rude, and the guy as being measured and calm even in the face of that kind of rudeness.

Really great idea for a succinct, and very to-the-point response in this kind of situation, Ross. I, for one am getting a lot out of your newsletters and video blogs. You offer an incredible level of support and reachability that NONE of your “competitors” do. Think it’s really great how you take the time to answer questions personally and really put yourself out there. It’s about time I get your HSC, and I’m spreading the word. Keep it up!

Thanks. I will add that to list of my internal beliefs. It is impossible for me to create that kind of response because I know the game and me approaching the girl is the best thing that could happen to her that night.

Hey Jess,

Thanks for your kind words. I am experimenting with some new technology to give my clients/students much great accessibiility and interaction with myself and their fellow students.

One difference between me and my “competition” is that I don’t hide behind an anonymous site.

You can see on the videos that I am a real person, that I stand behind what I say and that I walk my talk.

Please feel free to share the videos on the blog with anyone and everyone, put them on Youtube with links to my site, etc.

BTW, one idea is to go get an affiliate link from my website and embedd your Speed Seduction(R) affiliate link into the video, so when people click on it and go to my site and buy, YOU get the 20% commission.

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I walked to a girl today. She was sitting at lunch with a bunch of friends, mainly male. I did my best to relax before I walked to her. I ended up being calm, but I was also clearly clumsy, which is related to my lack of confidence as well as of experience with that kind of situation. After a couple of stupid questions to the group (like: are you going on vacation soon?..), I told her I found her cute and I was doing statistics on cute girls to find out how many were single. She refused to answer me and told me my question was awkward and strange. She agressively asked me about what kind of underwear I had. She was clearly on the defensive and agressive, and her friends started making fun of me, saying I was really making a stupid and dumb approach. I remained calm and mentioned that I was just doing my best to get in touch with her and there was nothing really mean with that. Then I walked away. I have read your suggestion on how to respond to rude women. It seems good to me, and I’ll try to keep it in mind for next time. I think there are many rude women, at least in France: walking to a girl without a good reason is not well accepted, unless you are so funny that she will like it. So, it is not easy to gain confidence when you are rejected that brutally from the first minute by most women, at least as long as you are a beginner in “speed seduction”…

Great comment,

once in a while, I get this comment and shrug it off..now Im definitely going to call her on it. Also, I can use this elsewhere. Im going to try this on some distressed home-owners losing their house. Sometimes, they can be extremely rude and all I did was knock on their door.

Thanks

I understand the rude and awkward feelings and encounters. I am just beginning, and am considered a natural, but it works. I will try this soon.

awe that sucks Beavis…awe huh