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    A M July 20, 2012, 11:01 pm

    Including sarging into a meditative state put any conflincts in quarantine, you don’t need to solve and fix em when you are there
    I’ve got fears that I fear I will never solve…
    Btw hot women have a great understanding of touching, they do it to seduce the target: they know that a horny man is going to chase or bang her, if he doesn’t is a gay
    they are comfortable with it, they know how to do it and they know men like it
    They are carassing their pet, not touching a rabid dog: is a kind of testing man’s reactions (usually entangled with self validation) and is not a goal, is a check they do before moving on

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    The Purple Gang July 21, 2012, 6:20 am

    “4.Go ahead and do the deed and let REALITY show you what the result will be instead of hiding behind speculation’

    There is no right, there is no wrong……just actions….and consequences.

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    A. Sage Thompson July 21, 2012, 10:53 am

    Spot on. I’ve had to continually back off to move forward.

    Soften, soften, and soften some more.

    I would say that in some respects, 90% of the anxiety I’ve felt was a legitimate warning about my intentions and the energy I was coming from.

    The turning point came (slowly over the last year since the Chicago ’11 seminar, after a year of mainly inner game work before that, which was crucial to handling what followed) when I actually started taking action in the world (with a personal 50 Walk-up Challenge) and learned to say to myself, “Is this action safe, normal, and everyday and coming from a place of, ‘let’s just offer a friendly overture and see how she responds’?”

    And note, pickup lines are nothing more than a friendly overture. It’s not a declaration of intent to father her children.

    Yes, I’ve gotten laid since then, but it didn’t start with, “What’s the magic line that will drop her pants the minute I say it?”

    And I’m still working on other areas of my life that provide the context in which “Seduction” itself is much more “safe, normal, and everyday. Not to mention kicking the ‘dating’ habit.”

    Yesterday I was looking for a good deed to break up the monotony of work. Didn’t really need any more coffee but that was the only destination I could think of. Pulled in the lot and spot a young lady sitting in her car with the hood up. Thought to myself, “This is a walk-up I can deal with.” Walked over an squelched the “anxiety” with a non-verbal thought of my current intent. Ask her, “Anything I can help with?” pointing at the engine and saying well back physically.

    I’m not making this up, she wanted me to bang on her starter. I actually had the same problem with a Jeep 12 years ago, the brushes get corroded… I wasn’t able to get her motor running, but she thanked me for trying.

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