Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
Picking up right where we left off with Part 1, here is the next understanding, based on what I said before:
****Wherever possible, tailor, modify and adapt your language to the unique situation and the unique audience and environment you have in front of you*****
How do you do this?
Well, first of all, you go beyond MEMORIZING. You have to really understand and experience the idea of capturing and leading the imagination… and that this happens all the time.
You have to get that the imagination, fantasy, and right brain visualizing and emotion controls MUCH more of human behavior than you ever first realized, especially with women.
You have to experience how words can paint vivid mental images and create strong flows of feeling.
You have to understand(UNDERSTAND!!!!) how vague language and descriptive language can create huge flows of positive emotion and trigger mental images.
Once you really understand, then you can go to modifying what you say to fit your audience and the environment.
You can match your language to:
- Something going on in the physical environment.
- Something going on in the emotional environment
- Something your audience is DOING
- Something your audience is OBSERVING
Best part: it doesn’t matter whether you audience is one woman or 2 dozen women. These principles work regardless and irrespective of numbers).
And Now, A Poetic Principle
Another principle is: observe who is most responsive to your words.
Example: let’s say you are at a poetry reading and you are going to get up on stage and read some steamy seduction poems.
What you want to do is SLOWLY read the poem, pausing as you go and make eye contact with the audience. Watch to see which women are most strongly responding: who is getting all “doggy dinner bowl”, with wide open eyes, lips parted, breathing heavy, even nipples erect.
THOSE are the girls you will want to talk to, afterwards.
Whenever I am in a group of women, I always watch to see who is most responsive. Those are the ones I will zero in on for more attention.
Let this get you started.
Peace and piece,
RJ
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Love it! Just so happens I’ve been invited to a poetry reading. 🙂
So what I think you are really saying is this, “working with groups of women at once really just increases your odds of success.” Not only does it take care of the comfort and safety issue for you, because they are all already comfortable being together, but you can “pattern” the whole group at the same time, it opens the door to advanced techniques, and it has them naturally competing for you. Hell, this might be my Gold Key for the week – Their comfort in a group = my comfort walking up to them! Only groups of 2 or more may apply for walk-up privileges between now and next Monday (existing engagements exempt).
Hi Ross,
Gotta say, a few months into learning this I sat down in a coffee shop with 6 young girls and analyzed there handwriting one by one.
We were all having a wonderful time together.
3 or 4 of them were transfixed constantly with the dinner bowl look and the others were physically leaning into me…
When I ran out of memorized patterning I shit a brick and said my goodbyes.
Inexperienced back then I only used memorized patterns and games and demos but sinse then i’ve been writing my own…and even coming out with pattern language spontaniously, even suprising myself how much I’ve learnt.
I’m not bragging I’m just proving how powerful this material works even from the start when using the examples… They are fantastic training wheels.
Onwards and upwards.
Bush
It’s amazing . . . what you’ve discovered about how the female mind is so vulnerable to language. It’s just amazing.
Voltaire said, “Give me five minutes to talk away my ugly face . . . and I’ll bed the queen of france.”
You’re a genius, Paul.
After reading this two-part newsletter, I see that I really need to study up more on working SS languaging into my everyday convos.