Dear Seeker of Success,
Unfortunately, a lot of the “advice” on how to overcome approach anxiety makes it worse.
Done repeatedly, it even creates the risk of making approach anxiety (seem like) an incurable condition.
Much of what I will share here is also “advice” we’re given on how to deal with life’s challenges.
1) Pushing Through The Anxiety And Pain. The problem when you do that is that you’re pushing that anxiety out in front of you. That’s the vibe that will hit the woman first. Your vibe always washes over the woman before your words address her. If you’re pushing forward this vibe of anxiety and moving through pain, that’s what will hit her first.
2) Diminishing Your Desire. This means you begin to subtly do the old “sour grapes” phenomena. Do you remember the metaphor of the sour grapes?
The fox wanted to eat some grapes. He kept jumping and jumping, but he couldn’t reach them. They were very high in the tree. He began to tell himself, “Those grapes are very sour. They’re probably don’t taste very good.”
With this bad approach to approach anxiety, guys diminish. They say, “She’s probably a bitch. She probably has a boyfriend. I bet she’s terrible in bed.” Or they say, “I’ll come back tomorrow or another time when I’m feeling more ready.”
As You’re Reading Now, You’re Probably
Thinking, “I’ve Gone Through This”
This leads to #3:
3) Deluding Yourself Into Thinking You’re Happy Without A Woman. You think, “I’m okay with my girlfriend who’s not really good looking. My life is pretty good by itself. I don’t really need to do anything today.”
So, you push through pain, diminish your desire, and then chase it with a shot of self-delusion.
What A Cocktail.
Oh, and there’s one more beverage to get you thoroughly wasted on approach anxiety:
4) School Jumping. Guys come to me, having tried several of my competitors’ courses. Here’s the usual thought process: “I’m not absolutely certain I’ll get it perfect with Speed Seduction®, so I’ll try (fill-in-the-blank) and then (fill-in-the-blank).”
What happens when you school-jump? You never really reach any mastery of success with women.
Stick around. Next time I post here, I’ll share some REAL solutions to approach anxiety.
Peace,
RJ
P.S. You can struggle to try to figure all of this out on your own.
Or you can let me take you by the hand, lead you out of the prison-house of frustration, hesitation, confusion and settling and into the land of moist, pink abundance.
