Dear Seeker of Success,
It’s a matter of official public record (just ask Wikipedia and Urban Dictionary) that the term “Sarging” is named after my legendary kitteh, Sargy J. Cat.
Many people ask why I named the process of approaching, interacting with, and seducing women after my cat.
The best example I have comes from working with a student who was “off and on” with his girl-getting game, who found that no matter what he did, he still found himself choking at the very thought of going out and approaching women.
My advice to him was to change his language.
And By This, I Mean: Change
The Word You Call It!
I told him to stop using the word “approaching,” like you’re going to go out and approach someone.
Instead, I told him to use the word “Sarging.”
“Approaching” has a different emotional connotation than the word “Sarging.”
Therefore, Sarging frees you to put a different kind of connotation and a different set of feelings to it.
Sometimes the wrong word can lock us up deeper – or the right word can set us free.
It really is important how we language things to ourselves and how we structure our consciousness by spinning the right words to put us in the direction where we want to go.
It really is important.
One of the key things about Speed Seduction® is that we point out, not just how your language affects women, but how your language, both in terms of what you speak and how you think to yourself, can structure your world and your sense of possibility.
And if changing a word changes THAT many things, then, well…
That sure beats a poke in the eye.
Peace,
RJ
P.S. I can’t promise that logging into the Rapid and Total Success With Women course and watching the simple, concise, easy-to-follow modules will transform you.
But it will certainly shake to the core any limiting beliefs you had about how pain has to be part of your life, and how much (or little) the past actually has to shape your present and future (which really, is not at all, when you encounter the proper skills and guidance).
