Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
There is a crucial difference between the paths traveled by men and by women on the path to where both meet up for the ride on the baloney pony:
The sooner you master this, the more you’ll up your game.
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. This is a preliminary concept that lays the foundation for Sexual Aggression Mastery and Showing Up Attractive.
Ross Jeffries™ is the founder, creator and Master Teacher of the worldwide seduction community. Featured as the mentor to Neil Strauss in the best-selling book, “The Game”, RJ has taught, coached, and mentored thousands of men around the world, since 1991, guiding them to the success with women they truly desire and deserve.
Speed Seduction® shows you how to succeed with the women you really want, predictably and reliably, without guesswork or games - respecting yourself and the women you enjoy.
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wow.. i like that, so she could be drippin with arousal, but there’s a chance she won’t act on them.. so would her being a bit aroused and having that, it’s on process going on seal the deal? i guess somewhere during the over all seduction process i’d have to get her process for, it’s on, anchor it and utilize it when i sense a shift in her state that can block a successful outcome.. or would i just utilize it anyway? man, that’s crucial understanding those subtle distinctions between her being attracted and banging my brains out.. this definitely merits some serious consideration and implementing.. thank you =)
Thank you, I like that. I learned to crank it up using fractionation, suggestion works wonders also.
Piece!
Crucial difference is in understanding that female brain wired differently than male and every situation evokes an emotional response in a woman. Emotions are chaotic and change frequently. It’s harder for a woman to make decisions because of that. So the key is to create or evoke right emotion, amplify it and lead a woman to desired outcome. It’s not about two stages but communication in general.
Great point: Just because she may have something that stops her from moving from arousal to “it’s on” does NOT necessarily mean she is rejecting you.
How often do we do a mind read on a woman and shoot ourselves down because of what we THINK she is THINKING.
Part of this process as Ross teaches it is to stop projecting our own MALE process of attraction and arousal onto the women we want.
Start paying attention to what’s actually going on with HER. How about this question: “Hey… What’s going on with you?” spoken in the right tonality… just might move you through that momentary pause…
thanks again RJ!
Who else is teaching this so effectively?
rock on!
Actually, i dont believe its only with women. I believe its a general fact of psychology. The only reason it stands hard for women so much is that. Well, the male sexuality is very linked together.
Simply put, i believe that if sex is not your priority, then things will come up anyways, man or woman. In my understanding, its the same kinda mechanism as approach anxiety.
I may not be correct here. However, i feel as though if she is turned on locked in and somewhat comfortable, she will do and say things that either directly lead to the bed, or she will show you little mental walls for you to allow her through that will lead you to the bedroom anyways.
I dont know why, but i feel like nearly everything a woman says can be used somehow to get her into bed with her. Women are so sexual, it just exudes their whole presence.