Dear Seeker of Success, If you can tell me what you want in a woman…. ….I can tell you why you won’t get it. See, right off the bat, we have a major language problem. When you say, “I want,” the message is that it’s always separate and apart from you. You’re reaching for that […]

Dear Seeker of Success, Time and time I’ve heard it again, from students and other smart guys who approach women with a specific sequence of actions or memorized pick-up lines. There’s a reason why I hear it. One (or more) of three things will usually happen(and many times one leads from the other): a) She’ll […]

Dear Seeker of Success, Do you realize… how bad you’re getting in the way of a woman being hot and bothered for you… if you keep hanging around stoking the embers? Get lost…leave her alone.  Let her find her way to the bone… Peace, RJ P.S. A lot of what you’ve been told, up until […]

Dear Seeker of Success,, When you don’t need to get laid, then you start getting laid a lot. I call this the Paradox of Poon. The thing about paradoxes is this… Certain things are a paradox on one level until you change the frame. Then you see the real power in how it works. In […]