Dear Seeker of Success, Previously, I shared with you a way to leverage your way out of the “cold shower loop” by changing what you focus on. My point was: look at what’s happening in other areas of your life that might be stopping you or tripping you up. Now, another form of leverage comes […]

Dear Seeker of Success, Should you find yourself all jumbled up, relax if you can. Three things: You are not a “thing” called a self but an ever-changing flow of activity. The benefit? You can find some distance and some peace in any and every situation. The world “outside” is really not separate from the […]

Dear Seeker of Success, In my 25+ years of teaching smart men like you how to get the results you want with the women you desire, I’ve found when people are stuck, their natural tendency is to push harder within the system they are using. That seldom works. When I want to help people change, […]

Dear Seeker of Success, We’re hip-deep in the Holidays (aka Hellidays) here. Christmas and Hanukkah (which both started about the same time this year) so far. Today is Observed Christmas in the United States, and Boxing Day in the Commonwealth. We’re now careening toward Nude Year’s Eve. Feeling it yet? Think about this. In just […]