Dear Seeker of Success, Again and again, I’ve said: do not “date” a woman until AFTER she’s taken a ride on the baloney pony. But what happens when she’s someone you’re potentially interested in romantically – someone you see as more than a one-night stand – and she says she wants to be “exclusive” before […]
Dear Seeker of Success, EVERYTHING you do in your approach to women is part of the “close” that gets you the results you aim for. Closing is not about “kissing” or “petting” or even intercourse. It’s about none of these specific actions or events. It’s a continuum of making her progressively more comfortable with contact, […]
Dear Seeker of Success, Someone told me that if he’s introduced to women at a party he can talk to them, no problem. But if he has to make an approach to a woman anywhere else, he doesn’t feel that he has “permission” to talk. That struck me as saying when you think of “approaching“, […]
Dear Seeker of Success, Ever felt a complete collapse of energy when you don’t achieve the results you wanted? Particularly when you make your move with a woman and she shuts you down cold? Some students who have experienced this say it gets to the point where they can almost see the future – they […]