Why Do Confident Men Shut Down Around Really Hot Women? (Part 2)
Dear Seeker of Success, Last time, we looked at how “shutting down” is incorrect in the sense that men are actually AMPING UP. Today, we’ll cover the next aspect: how you are languaging the problem. How are you talking to yourself about it? What metaphors are you using?
Why Do Confident Men Shut Down Around Really Hot Women? (Part 1)
Dear Seeker of Success, A student of mine shared that he doesn’t have approach anxiety except when he gets to women who are like an “8” or higher. Then he shuts down. He asked me, “What can I do to overcome the shutting down?” Here we have a guy who does well with women until […]
Minimalist Speed Seduction®: Getting More By Saying Less
Dear Seeker of Success, The other day I wanted to have some fun and practice with some “minimalist” Speed Seduction®. By that I mean: just using commands without any formal patterning. So I’m having coffee with this chick from Tinder and we are talking about what lets us know we are drawn to someone. Rather […]
Hooking A Woman’s Attention During Your First Conversation (Part 5)
Dear Seeker of Success, All the time – on forums, podcasts, and media interviews – I’m asked, is it fair to use Speed Seduction®? OF COURSE it’s fair. When we left off yesterday, we were discussing how to hook a woman’s attention during the first conversation and move her into a sexual state, or a […]