Your Fear Is Not A “Thing”
Dear Seeker of Success, One of the most common scenarios my Speed Seduction® students present me with is this: “I do fine if I am introduced to women or already know them. But walking up to a stranger, dead cold, in any situation, scares the bejezus out of me. I just can not do it. […]
Fear And Excitement: Two (Slightly) Different Forms Of Arousal
Dear Seeker of Success, An interesting nuance about how human emotions work, how they impact our thoughts and behaviors, is the similarities between these emotions with respect to where they come from and how they impact us. For example, let’s look at Fear and Excitement. Seemingly two completely opposite reactions, right? Well, yes and no. […]
Conversation With Women: Comment, Question And Observation
Dear Seeker of Success, Once you complete your pre-opener, it’s time for an “opener”. A great example is: Comment, Question And Observation. For example: if she looks athletic, look at her and say, “Can I ask you a question? Do you do a martial art? Can you fight?” After she responds – no matter what […]
The Understated Power of The Pre-Opener
Dear Seeker of Success, With any approach toward women, whether it’s a funny approach or question, comment and observation, we want to do a pre-opener. A pre-opener is something you say very briefly to a woman just so she can sample your voice and presence and know that you’re safe. For example, in a coffee […]