Dear Seeker of Success, The volume of questions we get from students tells no lies. Hands-down, the #1-with-a-bullet challenge smart guys report when it comes to success with women is approach anxiety. If only that was the whole story, my job would be easy. Much of what you call approach anxiety isn’t really pure anxiety. […]

Dear Seeker of Success, What exactly is an “alpha male” anyway?  Did they learn about it from studying wolves? Must have been the wrong wolves, as I explained way back in 2014 …along with showing you two things that are more important: Peace, RJ  

Dear Seeker of Success, In the beginning, when you learn to speak the Sargy language of sexualization, phonological ambiguity, language patterns and more, it may not feel familiar or comfortable to you. Any new direction can be hard. (See that? he he he he) Three things you must know. First of all, that’s the whole […]

Dear Seeker of Success, I’m so excited about our newly-released July 2014 London Seminar Footage that I couldn’t hold back Sneak Peek #2. Watch as I demonstrate the wrong way, then the Sargy way, to show genuine curiosity.  You also get a good look at how to make it all seem like everyday, ordinary conversation: […]