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    Ondra August 29, 2018, 6:37 am

    After two drinks at a bar and a little walking through the city, I asked if she has ever tasted strawberry martini ( I was pretty sure she has not), and then i said if she would not like to try one, that I just learnd how to make it. That is all, nothnig difficult

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      Ross Jeffries August 29, 2018, 9:56 am

      Sometimes it’s that simple…. when you have established the common interest with her.

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    Vic Vega August 29, 2018, 6:38 am

    All you have to do is in the moments she’s looking into your eyes to see if she can trust all the amazing things she’s feeling, you simply clear your mind and stare deep into her eyes reassuringly and make her break it. Then watch her gush and enjoy going home with her.

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      Ross Jeffries August 29, 2018, 9:56 am

      You hit on something important – there are certain things you MUST clear from your mind, or it could sink your Sarge. We cover that at the London Seminar.

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    waldek August 29, 2018, 6:57 am

    her ex boyfriend was a builder and she knowh something about a trade . i did ask her to give an opinion about my flat . so after 2 minutes ive said : ok thats it ! youve seen it … we can go . when we have been in town she ask to buy a wine and come to my place again 🙂 i said : ” are you SURE ?” .she said : lets do it before i will change my mind 🙂
    it was in Poland .in Gdynia .
    thank you for being there mr Ross !

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      Ross Jeffries August 29, 2018, 9:58 am

      I see what you did. You took her to your place, then you only stayed two minutes.

      Many women are conditioned that once she goes to his place, there’s an expectation he will make a move / she will make a move / stuff will happen.

      And here you are, pattern-interrupting the i$ht out of that paradigm and making her think “WTF?”…

      ….so that she invites herself back to your place.

      Well played, sir!

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    Dave L. August 29, 2018, 7:00 am

    When the woman with really nice lips drove me home, she had already told me she had someplace else she had to go fairly soon. When we arrived in front of my place, I said, “It’s getting late, but I guess you can come in for a few minutes if you like.”
    “Oh, CAN I?” she replied sarcastically.
    So she came in and talked to me for a while. When she got up to leave I escorted her to my door, we hugged and kissed briefly on the lips, and she left. Ever since then, she’s been calling me more than I’ve been calling her, and no doubt we’ll be getting back together when she gets back from her trip.

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      Ross Jeffries August 29, 2018, 10:00 am

      Because in this situation, you only did what the two of you felt coming naturally together.

      (See what I did there?)

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    Sebastian Marks III August 29, 2018, 7:24 am

    If the woman is highly into music, she’ll like the idea of stopping by my place to listen to some “unreleased” tracks from a few famous musicians I either know, or I know-someone-who-knows, that I have access to on the condition I only play them at home and do not burn them to a CD, put them on the internet, or otherwise reproduce them. This has worked several times.

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      Ross Jeffries August 29, 2018, 10:04 am

      I remember, this is what persuaded the “super-squirter” to come back to your place after she’d seemed fairly unresponsive to language patterning at your meet-up. You turned on the music and it turned her on.

      Like I mentioned to the earlier commenter, it appealed to a common interest.

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    Oles August 29, 2018, 10:36 am

    When I used to have my own place it really helped me to bring girls. Just suggested we watch a movie together… that’s all.
    But now it’s gonna be fun. No place. I can book hotel or her place or even my car…

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    kingpin August 29, 2018, 10:48 am

    “If it seems to be going really well, you make out a little bit, etc., then say, “Would you mind giving me a ride home?”

    what happens if you live in a building with a bistro in it (booze or coffee) do you still recommend going farther away to get a ride back?

    “If she’s really into you, it won’t matter.”

    Before I knew of any of this stuff, I met a girl in a bar, got her number and my first date was to come to my place and watch Seinfeld episodes. I didn’t know any better ahaha… After we made out, I was leading her out of my place and she said “Are you gay?” Then it dawned on me what was happening. If I had let her go I would never have seen her again and slept with her. Another women once grabbed my arm and slung it around her shoulder. They want dominance, the reality of it is you must do most of the work. Do to the era we live in there could be repercussions with the wrong female, so there is always that as well.

    This reminds me of a former trainer of yours who had a pair of handcuffs back at his place, maybe let them know about the “Shades of grey” props that someone who worked the film gave you that are back at your place.

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      Ross Jeffries August 29, 2018, 11:04 am

      A lot of what you shared goes into how you properly use the four vibes – something we cover at the upcoming London seminar.

      On your second question, find a bistro at least a block away. To be in the same building would be a little TOO obvious, IMHO.

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