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    Joe September 21, 2010, 11:08 am

    Exactly Ross – Like you always say, “either i will get what i want or learn something that will help me get what i want”.

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    Diño September 21, 2010, 2:32 pm

    Congrats again dude!

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    DANNY September 21, 2010, 3:52 pm

    A Cracker Jack truism.

    “JUST BECAUSE IT DOESN’T FEEL GOOD, DOESN’T MEAN IT ISN’T WORKING.”

    Thinking with one’s feelings is an invaluable skill, and using one’s intuition can save time.
    And for sure, being rational is just great, if one’s axiom system has a proven track record.
    But decisions, based on Feelings, Intuition, and Rational Belief Systems, are only as “good” as the data one has collected in the past; only as “good” as one’s previous programming.
    So, when one is trying out new things and making adjustments in one’s responses, it pays to set up very simple benchmarks for “success”.
    Choosing “simple” bench-marks, means, choosing bench-marks that are as independent as possible, of one’s feelings, intuition or rational interpretation. One just collects data.
    In this way, the “results”, of an “experiment”, are easily, determined.
    “Feeling Good”, feeling comfortable with a skill, is mostly a matter of habit and it takes about three weeks for a habit to take hold.
    In the mean time, a person can use simple empirically evidence to keep things headed in the right direction.
    Empiricism can be one’s episomolgy. It may not lead to “the truth”, but it gets close.

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    jake@@##@@ September 22, 2010, 12:12 am

    ross i think u hit the target.
    when it boils down to what u want , it is gettin laid in the first place.
    then the dating begins.with facing rejection it’s the part of the process
    right.u gotta go through the certain steps before u get ur goal.similar with evrythin’ else in life.u r a leader in girl getting thing.i m nepalese kid just 5’2 and thin ever since i started applying ur techniques despite the fact i m asian in this caucasian world i get more attention.i thank neil strauss
    for lettin me know bout u in his book the game.i m grateful tht i know u and will be using ur products in a full swing.
    thank you millioneth times.

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