Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
One of my readers who receives our Steaming Hot Seduction Secrets newsletter is asking what, for many of you, is an important question.
He knows that I don’t recommend going to “meat markets” or “pick up joints” because they’re usually too noisy so you can’t work your Sargy magic, there’s too many people around, and besides, women will have their guards up because they know guys are there to hit on them.
I also don’t suggest meeting women online unless you know what you’re doing. On dating sites, again, her guard will be up, plus what have I said about introducing any form of “dating” frames with women before you sleep with them? Even on f@@king Facebook.
(Though I may be introducing a new curriculum in 2016 that stands this on its head – more soon.)
Those chat rooms and “naughty boxes”, you don’t know if, in her mind, she’s chatting with YOU, or some idealized vision of what she thinks you might be.
So, where are you going to effortlessly approach and meet women this weekend?
One of the best ways to meet women is to encounter them during the normal activities you engage in, connecting with women while they go through their normal activities. For example…
- You think there might be some wet, willing women at the car wash?
- What about the succulent hottie standing next to you in line at the checkout?
- Maybe she’s your “friend” now, but did you know you can use the friend zone to get her in bed?
- Going out of town and flying solo? Or, you’re staying close to home, but your wingman isn’t around to back you up this weekend? Don’t worry, you’re covered either way.
And, yes, I’ll address the elephant in the room. You know the old cliche about what you’ll find at the produce section in the supermarket? Well, it’s not a cliche. My students in southern California (where I’m from) know that you’ll usually find some fresh fare at Ralphs.
That should give you some ideas.
And I better not hear about how you got some chick’s number this weekend so you could call her up and ask her out on a date, unless she gave it to you AFTER catching her breath from the whirlwind flight on the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle.
Get out there and make it happen.
Peace,
RJ
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Gotta agree, I don’t go for online, I have met two women online. One flirted with me, being very suggestive, set up a meet, she was late, met me for two minutes, then bailed. The other continues to be an interest. In neither case did I initiate a sarge, as I said I don’t sarge online. But, I will engage them if they come on to me. Then I will just have ‘conversations’ ie., chats, which lead to phone calls. I don’t care nor do I push for a meeting, but make it clear that there is interest in having a face to face meeting. If it happens I am fine with it, but I don’t care, mostly because online sarging is not my venue of choice.
In most cases these days, I have women of the attributes I enjoy sarge me, this, almost entirely, due the the vibe I carry, and my magickal practices, especially the clearing exercise. I can, of course do a cold approach, and do, but hey, only if I think she is truly someone who deserves the opportunity to meet me. 🙂