Dear Seeker of Success,
Meeting and succeeding with hot, sexy women has its ups and downs.
Not all of them are in bed, or on the couch, or at the beach.
No matter how how much scoring with hot babes is a natural part of who you are and how you approach life, some Sarges just won’t work out.
That’s to be expected.
You “exit, stage left” and Sarge on the next hottie.
Some guys get thrown for a loop, though, when they approach women – the unexpected gets in the way, or they get a response they weren’t counting on, and the “shyness” factor kicks in.
Case in point: this note I got from a student.
I would like to know if an “anti shyness” solution is good for the situation I’m in, as I’m sure that alot of guys have the same problem.
When I go out Sarging, I can pretty easily get myself to act and talk in the way I like to. But whenever the girl reacts in a way I wasn’t expecting, or when the unexpected happens, I will usually DROP BACK TO MY OLD SELF. Inevitably, I ruin the “first impression” I made on her.
The last time this happened, I was getting a good reaction from the girl, and she said “OMG I am blushing, you say stuff very well.” That made me say something stupid like “Yeah, I’m blushing as well.” Someone who passed by heard us and laughed, and then I laughed and went back to my old self – and started to act in a silly way. This woman shifted from being very charmed into being uninterested, very fast. Ross, what can I do when this happens?
This is pretty common and easily addressed.
It’s just an old flow of fear, linked to an old belief that says, “I can’t win”.
The trick is to become consciously aware of and MASTER the very emotions and flows of feeling that have been blocking and stopping you for years, hiding just outside your conscious awareness.
All strong emotions, including negative ones like worry and fear, can be re-channeled into AMAZING SOURCES OF POWER.
The very same energy/feeling flows/and complexes that have kept you blocked, once mastered, become incredible sources of power and ability, lined up to help you achieve what you want.
Wouldn’t that feel great???
I bet it would sure beat a poke in the eye!
Peace,
RJ
P.S. This fear, manifested as shyness, can creep up at ANY stage of your Sarge, whether it’s the initial walk up, the mid-game, or the final “closing her-getting naked” stage!
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