Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
In my 20+ years as a Seduction teacher and coach, I’ve waged battle with the “programming” that is put into the minds of smart guys like you about the “proper way” to “date” or “court” a woman.
You’ve heard all this, or something like it, before:
- Take her for coffee on the first date, and don’t spend more than an hour. If she’s late, wait 15 minutes.
- Wait two days after the first date before calling her. One day you’re too eager, three days you’re not interested.
- When you do call her, don’t ask her on the next date. Just let her know you’re interested, but leave her guessing. Wait till the next time you speak to her to ask her out again.
- Wait till the third date to have sex.
- Wait until you meet her friends and family before deciding if she’s “the one” for you.
In case you haven’t noticed, there is one word common to each of these so-called “rules of dating” …
… “Wait.”
For what, exactly, are you waiting? Let me dive deeper into “Rule” No. 2 – the one about when you should call her after you meet her.
I was working with a student earlier this week who, using my time-tested girl-getting strategies, had scored with a woman and had an awesome night of no-holds-barred, crazy sex with her. Now he was asking me how long he should wait before calling her.
I listened to his explanation for about 20 seconds, then I respectfully interrupted him with this truth. Ya ready?
If She Likes You, She Wants You To Call Her And
She’ll Answer Or Call You Right Back. She’ll Be
Thrilled To Hear From You.
Look: if the woman is hot for you and wants mind-blowing sex (and maybe more, if you and her view each other as potential life-partner material), it doesn’t matter one f@@king iota when you call. As long as you don’t wait too long. Really.
If you call the very next day, she’ll get all wet from hearing your voice and it will make her entire day knowing it was as good for you as it was for her.
If you don’t get to her for three days because you’re busy leading your life (and Sarging on women as hot as, if not hotter than, her) then she just spent the three days touching herself thinking about you and commiserating with her girlfriends nonstop about how hot you are and how she can’t WAIT to hear from you.
By now she’s so worked up over you….
….She Might Come As Soon As She Sees
Your Number On The Caller ID.
Bottom line: you met her, you like her, you had a great time with her. Give her a call today, let her know you enjoyed it, and use my teachings and techniques to close her on the next meeting.
If she’s interested, she’ll leap at the chance to leap on you. If not, then you screen her out, chalk it up as experience that helps get you the next 20 women, and with all questions cleared up, focus your girl-getting energy on the women who DO want you to call.
Time ain’t gonna wait for you, pal. The other guys who are also Sarging on her (if she’s as hot as you think she is, you’re not the only guy on her radar) aren’t going to wait for you to get off your Seduction a## and pick up the damn phone before they make their play.
He who waits, masturbates.
Me, I’d rather take action – and GET action. The women are waiting … what are you waiting FOR?
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. Since enjoying damn near ridiculous levels of success, satisfaction and pleasure with the most amazing women around is something you are highly interested in, then don’t wait another second.
Claim your success, satisfaction, and pleasure with my Rapid And Total Success With Women System TODAY, stop this “waiting game” and instead master your girl-getting game.
I still stress out before calling a girl, usually i like to keep it short and sweet to arange the next meeting, sometime even telling the girl that I hate talking on the phone, not really, just when i first meet them, after that i can spend hours on the phone.
Hehe.. love is a creepy thing. Especially CALLING! Texting is less creepy 🙂
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