Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
Recently on my blog, I delved into the concept that picking up the women you desire should become a part of who you are. In baseball, the pros make a grand slam look easy because, to them, “hitting it out of the park”…
…is no big deal.
But until you do master it, it CAN be a big deal. It’s natural, and nothing to be ashamed of.
Here’s a challenge faced by one of my students who already had some of my products and had studied my teachings:
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One thing I can’t seem to do is walk up to a woman in, say, a shopping mall, and start talking to her. If I could get comfortable with that, I think I could become really really good at this. Up until now I’ve met women on the Internet, or through a friend here and there, but one thing I want to master is just walking up to any woman and start a conversation with her.
Personally, I think I will never be able to do that, and if you can’t believe something, changing that belief is a hectic thing – especially if you have the idiotic belief that it is some-how coded in your genes, or some other stupid belief. Dumb huh? How do you change that and reframe it so that you can honestly believe that you can do it, and not be bothered about rejection?
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First of all, your beliefs are NEVER idiotic or stupid. They are a natural by-product of our life experiences and our environment. It’s how we manage and change our beliefs that spells the Seduction Success difference.
If you were to make meeting women fun and easy (instead of a task), what beliefs and meaning would have to be there? Where would you feel the flow of fun, easy, let’s go play energy?
When you believe that meeting women is “no big deal,” then it becomes part of “who you are.”
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. Next time you see that unbelievable “10” of a hottie in the park in her purple blouse, purple scarf, and purple hat, carrying her purple purse…walking her dog on a purple leash…who just hung up her purple cell phone…and you have an obvious “opening line” but just can’t make yourself go up to her…
…ask yourself…what’s stopping you?
P.P.S. Success with women involves an “outer game” as well as an “inner game.” It’s that “inner game” that can really trip you up. Even though you know how to play ball, there’s something inside you that stops you from taking your turn at-bat. Let me help you Nail Your Inner Game:
