Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
Ever had it happen where for some reason, you just can’t stop thinking about a particular chick?
Like, you spend hours visioning what your next meeting (or even phone call) will be like, exactly what you’re going to say?
Then, you find yourself agonizing over the right time of day you should call her? Suddenly worried that she might see what you put on your Facebook wall and fretting that she might interpret your status a certain way (that keeps your willy dry)?
Normally I ask, when I get questions like this I ask, first, foremost, uppermost, and important-most,
Is she the ONLY succulent, amazing woman
on the whole freaking planet???
However. in this case I think you realize that she isn’t. It’s just that there’s something inside of you keeping you fixated on this one chick.
First, you’re probably placing too much importance on this one chick. Have you f@@ked her yet? (It’s a yes or no question; either your Junior Explorer has explored her woman cave, or it hasn’t.)
Next, define “importance”. Importance as in sexually wanting her, or importance is in her being someone you connect with on an emotional/caring level?
I’d be VERY careful about connecting too strongly with women, emotionally, unless you are well into f@@king them. Most guys underestimate their need to care for someone and emotionally connect with.
A lot of times guys find their “stuckness” can be exacerbated by being confused by that woman’s emotional 180s, fluctuations between wanting you and pushing you away, contradictory signals, sudden loss of interest and other deeply frustrating and seemingly (to you) irrational actions. Sound familiar?
Sometimes I feel I stand at the fulcrum between two things: the living wall of fire that it is my lust and the flood of water that is my compassion and my need to connect and care. Can make things at times confusing, yes?
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. RIGHT NOW is the time to leave all that behind, to get “unstuck,” and instead gain a comprehensive understanding of women that helps you put it all perspective.
All of this (and more) is in my Rapid And Total Success With Women Course.
