Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
My girl-getting solution is called Speed Seduction® because it helps smart guys like you cut through all the crap that’s been programmed into you about “dating rituals” and the “5 Bs”, and instead spend a far greater percentage of your time enjoying women you truly desire, and who desire you right back.
When you apply my teachings and Sarge on many women, by sheer volume alone you will experience more of what you want. When you’re at bat, you might catch a winning streak. You could also go into a slump. Or, you could get thrown what seems like an endless string of curve balls.
One of my students came to me with this telling challenge:
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Ross, I don’t know what’s going on here. I have been meeting more women, getting laid more, going on more dates – all of it – since I got serious about Speed Seduction®. I use your Sarging methods and try to screen women carefully. Maybe the “duds” are flying under radar because your stuff makes it so easy to get them interested and willing to explore with me!
They amount to one-night stands that linger for a week or so and then she flakes out. Or I see the chick a couple times and then find out she’s a nutcase and I need to drop her quick. One day I’ll have three women in various stages of seduction, and then 24 hours later I’ll be down to zero. I’d really like to find a girlfriend, so I need women who can be around me for a little while who I can really enjoying spending time with and getting to know so I can choose wisely when I do commit.
This ain’t happening with me having to start over all the time. All of the women I meet lately seem to be “low quality.” Do I need new sources of women? Am I Sarging in all the wrong places?
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I doubt this is a sourcing issue, because you can find any kind of woman pretty much anywhere. You can’t really know who she is until you get to know her some. I’m also not convinced it’s a screening issue, because if you’re properly applying my teachings, you’re quickly doing “Exit, Stage Left” with obvious poor-fit candidates and focusing your seduction on women who respond to who you are and what you put out there.
I would say it’s a matter of CATEGORIZATION.
Listen: unless I am in a committed relationship, I Sarge like crazy. All the time. Every day. Everywhere. Even at the scene of a house fire. The more I Sarge, the more I succeed. The more I succeed, the more I want.
Every time I involve myself with a new woman, she needs to prove to me she is worth being in my “upper” or “premium” category by who she is, how she approaches me, and how she approaches life. Believe me brother, I go through a LOT of women to find the few who can attain that higher level with me. Sounds a lot like what you’re going through.
Keep batting, Slugger; you’ll hit it out of the park sooner than you think as long as you keep applying Speed Seduction® properly.
Peace and piece,
RJ
