Dear Seeker of Success, There are four areas of a woman’s life you can get really curious about: Contribution, Connection, Construction, and Craving. I call them the 4 Cs. When Sarging, here’s how they come together. The first “C” is where she is finding her sense of Contribution. Where does she find her sense that […]

Dear Seeker of Success, Women are not fragile children. They’re not going to fall apart if you do something that slightly pushes their boundary, ok? One thing that sets Speed Seducers apart from AFCs is knowing how to push a woman’s boundary without being creepy. It’s how to push her a little bit and – […]

Dear Seeker of Success, Gaining a profound mastery of your world involves getting curious. And when I say to get curious, I mean to get curious about your ENTIRE world, not just the women in it (or the women you’d like to have in it). Take this approach with people you meet: “That’s really interesting. […]

Dear Seeker of Success, Once you complete your pre-opener, it’s time for an “opener”. A great example is: Comment, Question And Observation. For example: if she looks athletic, look at her and say, “Can I ask you a question? Do you do a martial art? Can you fight?” After she responds – no matter what […]