Dear Seeker of Success, Have you ever heard the expression “damn, that guy’s got balls”? After 25 years of picking up and meeting women, one thing I’ve learned the hard way, is this: women get turned on immediately, the more gutsy, outrageous, and bold a guy is when he first approaches. In short, they LOVE […]

Dear Seeker of Success, If I had a nickel for every woman who, right prior to dropping her drawers, told me something like, “I’m not going to sleep with you tonight” or “Nothing’s going to happen” or “I’m not attracted to you”…… …I’d Be F@@king RICH! Come to think of it, I’m doing pretty well. […]

Dear Seeker of Success, There seems to be some confusion on the topics of being tested by women, screening women, women taking the lead, and fractionation. A question I get asked fairly often: is there a difference between the “tests” women try to put men through on his journey to the Province of Poon vs. […]

Dear Seeker of Success, In the beginning, when you learn to speak the Sargy language of sexualization, phonological ambiguity, language patterns and more, it may not feel familiar or comfortable to you. Any new direction can be hard. (See that? he he he he) Three things you must know. First of all, that’s the whole […]