Dear Seeker of Success, How can you project more sexual things without projecting horniness? Sexual is “I love f***ing. I’m a sexual person.” Horny is “Oh my god! I want to f*** you.” The difference is between being sexual, vs. being aroused in the moment. It’s the distinction between being hungry, vs/ and drooling over […]

Dear Seeker of Success, A student of mine reported in on a recent coaching call with a question about getting laid. (Yeah… I know… calling Speed Seduction® about getting laid? Who’da thunk??!?) Anywho… He’s been seeing her for a couple weeks. He’s 34, she’s 39. She’s never been married. She’s interested in having kids (and […]

Dear Seeker of Success, It may come as a surprise to you that OFTEN it is a good idea NOT to sleep with a woman. (As a great philosopher once said, “Bitches be crazy”.) Now, I don’t like to generalize and try my best to avoid it. But as I said in my original book, […]

Dear Seeker of Success, Consider a woman’s emotions like a cake recipe. Have you ever baked a cake? Have you watched someone bake a cake? Have you ever eaten cake? Great. When you bake a cake, what do you need?