Dear Seeker of Success, If you can tell me what you want in a woman…. ….I can tell you why you won’t get it. See, right off the bat, we have a major language problem. When you say, “I want,” the message is that it’s always separate and apart from you. You’re reaching for that […]

Dear Seeker of Success, I’ve been thinking about why so many smart guys aren’t getting the women they desire. In my research and review, I find some of the big “operating system” errors that guys make when they are NOT Sarging and where you can make some huge improvements in what I call “back game”. […]

Dear Seeker of Success, Lots of negative messages come flying at us when we approach and Sarge women. Women reject us – sometimes viciously, sometimes publicly and with deliberate intent to humiliate us in front of everyone within earshot. People get on our case about not being “suave” with the ladies. Then, when we take […]

Dear Seeker of Success, About 3 hours ago, someone spit on my whip. Now, let me explain. “Whip” is urban slang for “car”.  As in automobile. (There is a lesson in this that will improve your poon pounding percentage, so bear with me.)