Dear Seeker of Success, A member of the Speed Seduction® Elite Mastermind Program called me during Ask-Me-Anything office hours, with a challenge. I’ll paraphrase here: I’ve been practicing for a long time. I’m pretty successful in meeting women, making a connection and getting rapport and the results I want. One of the challenges I find […]

Dear Seeker of Success, One of the biggest questions we get from students once they actually start going into the field and getting experienced using the tools and mastering the skills has to do with anchoring. How do you capture her vibe, figuring out what moves her and motor-vates her, so that with just one […]

Dear Seeker of Success, Many times, beginning students have said or written to me, “I’m just having trouble getting started with this stuff. It’s not that I’m really shy or anything… it’s just that this new way of talking to women seems SO strange to me.” Now listen; I am very aware that a first […]

Dear Speed Seduction® Student, One of the all-time favorite language patterns is the Boyfriend Destroyer. (For anyone who thinks the idea of a “boyfriend destroyer” is bad, evil, misogynistic, disrespectful, rude, pushy, or anything else I’ve been called on the Romance Racketeer talk shows, stop your hissy-fitting and read this first.) Then come back, with […]