Dear Seeker of Success, Growing up, I used to love these movies about bank robbers and safe crackers who would pull off the perfect crime. Let’s imagine we’re professional bank robbers – legendary safe crackers. We have, in front of us, two identical bank vaults. They are identical in every way. It’s a foot-thick steel […]

Dear Seeker of Success, With any approach toward women, whether it’s a funny approach or question, comment and observation, we want to do a pre-opener. A pre-opener is something you say very briefly to a woman just so she can sample your voice and presence and know that you’re safe. For example, in a coffee […]

Dear Seeker of Success, Everybody has their own “Sarging zone.” For some guys, it’s the bars and clubs. Others lay their mack down at the bookstores and coffee shops. I have students who go grocery shopping every day, buying just what they need to make dinner that day, because it keeps them in play daily […]

Dear Seeker of Success, Lots of smart guys like you, many of whom are kicking ass in most areas of life (work, business, sports, social, hobbies, etc.)… …still find it difficult to approach and meet women. One of my excellent coaching members found himself in just such a dilemma: I’ve been going around here and […]