Dear Speed Seduction® Student, Everyone has a “type” of some sort. Some guys prefer women who look or act a certain way; for some it helps if they have many interests in common; some find it sufficient just to screen out the loonies and the crazies. Does it help to make a list of the […]

Dear Speed Seduction® Student, Not too long ago, a student shared a challenge with me.  He noticed he seemed to spend a lot of time inside his head. Many of his AFC beliefs were still there, always showing their ugly head when things with the ladies weren’t working out like he wanted. Example: if a […]

Dear Speed Seduction® Students, Chew on this: Some questions for aspiring seducers… 1) Where do you get the idea that you have to be totally certain of a perfect result before you can enjoy trying out behaviors that are totally new? 2) Where do you get the idea that women expect you to be totally […]

Dear Speed Seduction® Student, All things aside, are you, as the gentleman, still obligated to pay for the lady’s drink? Let’s dig into this. So you’re at a social with a cash bar (and you can run a tab).  You’re just having fun, being playful, chatting up different women.  Then, you focus in on one […]