Dear Speed Seduction® Student, In an area of life that has been deeply challenging, and where you have experienced a self-reinforcing loop of limiting beliefs, ineffective skills, crappy results and limiting beliefs, there is seldom just one shift that needs to be made. My experience with coaching literally thousands of guys over 20 years to […]

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students, Yes, the rumors are true. I do have a new girlfriend. She’s hot. She’s smart. She’s loving. She’s sexy as hell. And she is, of course, Scandinavian. What can I say? I have a thing for those Nordic ladies. Anyway, one thing I plan to do is to talk alot about […]

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans, A couple days ago, I posted here on the blog about what happens when you aren’t in your “Sarging zone” yet you’re being pushed to Sarge anyway. Let’s look at a different set of factors that might put you out of your Sargy mood because they put you under […]

Dear Speed Seduction® Student, In today’s installment I want to talk about the changes in orientation of thinking that are a big part of showing up attractive. As I said last time, learning to have a good relationship with uncertainty is important, and in a sense, that helps in orienting a person toward having a […]