Dear Seeker of Success, A major challenge facing almost every smart man comes, at one point or another on his Seduction journey, when he is interested in a particular hottie who “runs hot and cold.” One minute she’s all excited about getting together (giving you a chance to get her all hot and bothered and […]

Dear Seeker of Success, You’ve heard of it. You’ve seen it. I know you’ve experienced it. I’m talking about the serious mental disorder… …”One-Itis” Now, in case you don’t know,  “one-itis, as I define it, is “the cognitive/emotional derangement  where you are-hopelessly stuck on one woman, with whom you have not yet done the pole-into-hole […]

Dear Seeker of Success, The labels we put on our experiences can make a huge difference in how we experience them. Listen: many of my students tell me they are “terrified” or “anxious” about talking to women. Well, if this fits you (at least to some degree) here is some interesting news…

Dear Seeker of Success, There is only one sure thing in this world: the fact that there is no such thing as a “sure thing.” Part of mastering your girl-getting game is gaining comfort with, and mastery of, the unknown. Here’s an example of what might set things off… You just spent an awesome evening […]