Dear Seeker of Success, Our journey has shown us how “shutting down” is an incorrect phrase, the power of metaphors, what’s going on in your mind – and hers., and the physiological/energetic aspects including how to “amp down”. Building on what we covered last time, there’s something very important I’m telling you NOT to do: […]

Dear Seeker of Success, So far, we’ve looked at how “shutting down” is an incorrect phrase, the power of metaphors, and what’s going on in your mind – and hers. Today, we get into the physiological and energetic aspects. Often when guys are stuck, there’s a cognitive aspect, which is how they’re thinking about it, […]

Dear Seeker of Success, As we move through our series on why confident men shut down around really hot women, so far we’ve explored how “shutting down” is an incorrect phrase, and the power of metaphors. So far, so good! Now I’m going to show you what’s going in her mind, and yours, and how […]

Dear Seeker of Success, Last time, we looked at how “shutting down” is incorrect in the sense that men are actually AMPING UP. Today, we’ll cover the next aspect: how you are languaging the problem. How are you talking to yourself about it? What metaphors are you using?