Dear Seeker of Success, In yesterday’s blog post about the dominant vibe, I explained how in over-reaching in trying to be commanding, many otherwise smart guys come across as desperate supplicators in denial and ironically reveal themselves to be Average Frustrated Chumps (AFC). Today, I want to delve into a very common scenario that makes […]

Dear Seeker of Success, I’ll tell you a big reason why a lot of guys don’t approach women: fear of embarrassment. Hey, you’re walking up to this chick who you’ve never met before, you know nothing about her, and for all you know, she could be one of those meanies who gets her kicks off […]