Dear Seeker of Success, Recently I had a student tell me he is really good at approaching HB6s and HB7s (women who he deems “not bad”, but not incredibly hot either). But, when it came to “9s” and “10s” (amazingly hot women), he just could not approach or get them into bed. Seemed something was […]

Dear Seeker of Success In my 33+ years of teaching Speed Seduction®, what are the biggest factors I’ve seen holding guys back? I’d say: 1) Caring too much 2) Daring too little Now, let me be clear: my “caring” I don’t mean it’s a bad thing to have respect for women. I think that’s actually […]

Dear Seeker of Success, Smart guys like you want desperately to turn your fear of women into the charm and charisma that gets women hot and bothered and ready to go. But something is stopping you – like you literally talk yourself out of it. Such as this student: Ross, I have been working on […]

Dear Seeker of Success, One of the keys to success in anything is getting your butt INTO ACTION! Look: from time to time, in my 25 year career teaching all of this, I’ve met students who have memorized every word I’ve ever written, yet when I ask them, “Have you actually USED this stuff?” I […]