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    Hellbomber August 23, 2011, 8:43 am

    How interesting I was just thinking about this I knew there was something not quite right about the way these “cocky funny” guys approached. It just does not fit my personality overall.

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    Rheo August 24, 2011, 4:20 am

    I generally keep the “Laugh with her not at her” attitude. And just mild, gentle teasing. Not teasing for teasing’s sake but only if I observe something that I’m comfortable commenting and it feels right and natural and not hurtful to her. I once made a silly mistake by laughing at her, not with her (2nd date, after making out with her on the 1st) and she felt hurt and insulted. She told me that what I said was mean. I didn’t apologize for it and then she was quite aloof and snappy almost the whole time that day. Cocky and Funny is a delicate balance to strike and I say it only if I wouldn’t mind it if someone said the same thing to me.

    There was this girl on the street and texting on her phone. The police were right besides her so I didn’t approach her, but I did have a cocky and funny line to approach her. “Hey, its ok! I got the text already! I hope I didnt keep you waiting too long?”

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    David August 24, 2011, 5:28 pm

    To all the Sarging Brothers, Cocky Funny is not only a collossal waste of time, but it will set you back. If you are in a foreign country, it will get you yelled at and will not work. Take it from me, I tried it. It is not funny and if I ever run into D’Angelo, I would like to put my foot in his ass.
    WARNING: Stay Away from C & F. Seriously, don’t do it !!!

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    Yguru August 27, 2011, 2:49 pm

    I agree with Rheo.
    When I was younger, I had a little bit of anxiety approaching to girls. I remember my mom advised me all the time: “Treat girls like delicate wine glasses”.

    Now I look it back, “funny and cocky” way to approach was a component of sarging not the entire of it. That way of approach is like driving a racing car, you always need an alarm when to go slow down and get gentle otherwise you will give “unreliable guy” impression to the other. Remember the the ‘wine glass’, some wine glasses are tougher, while some are frailer. Girls in ‘Seeking more curiosity than safety’ category respond well to your funny and cocky way of approach, but only for when you’re up to collecting her attention. So it’s your job to observe one by one. Girls like funny and easygoing guys, but remeber their ultimate goal is receiving care and being emotionally protected.

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    Buy African Mango September 16, 2011, 11:48 am

    I do think that cocky funny has its place during interactions.
    If you do it with a sly smile, you can get away with a lot.

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    Dante October 4, 2011, 10:41 pm

    Hey David, do you mean David D’angelo?

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