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    Katten April 28, 2010, 8:48 pm

    Thank you for sharing this, Ross! It sounds as a very interesting concept, and I want to give it a try. A pattern I thought out could be:

    Many people think that it takes time to get connected to someone. But in reality you can feel a powerful connection and attraction for someone as soon as you meet him (point to yourself).
    For instance, has it ever happened to you to feel a sudden connection … like a cord of light that joins you and him, and it glows more and more as you keep hearing him?
    It’s not necessary that you become at once so attracted and fascinated to somebody (point to yourself) that you, I don’t know, want to marry him or become his best friend. But at least you can feel connected enough to wish to see this person again, and develop a rapport with him.

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    Richard | RichardShelmerdine.com April 30, 2010, 1:13 am

    Describing states to a woman is a really powerful tip. We need to get to their emotional side and bypass their overly logical mind. This is the key to it all.

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    Zarathud June 10, 2013, 1:08 am

    Three the hard way – triple trouble

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    Robert2 June 10, 2013, 8:56 am

    I watched the complete video course SSRTSWW this past weekend, did i learn any new skills that i could use to improve my situation? yes i did, but i can`t remember watching any thing about `conversational frameworks` i took notes while i was watching and i just can`t seem to find anything along these lines maybe i just need to be directed into the right direction…

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    Mat June 10, 2013, 9:28 am

    RJ.. I really love the quizzes! I remember in your BHSC.. you had several quizzes… You should make more of ’em.. Like a couple hundred questions and spread them out.. I.e. we read/watch some material.. and then take a quiz. I’d pay extra for it.

    I like them because they always reveal new insights and associations.. especially in the way you supply the answers. Eg. the actual wording of the correct answer itself reveals new insights AND the other wrong answers of which some could seem true.. but in fact they are not and I become aware: E.g. “Oh.. yeah, definitely NOT to give her an intellectual understanding.”

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      Ross Jeffries June 10, 2013, 2:42 pm

      @Mat – you may have your chance. After I get back from Europe I’m working on a couple things. More to follow.

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    Magnus June 10, 2013, 2:21 pm

    So this girl I met is going on a one week holiday and she brings a lot of books to read. Really looking forward to it. So I find this poem called “Reading on the beach”. I record reading it and attach it to a text message. It contains some nice metaphor and ambiguities but it´s also there as a cover for the textmessage:
    “As you stand at work you may notice your mind wandering off to something you´re longing for, something you know you get pleasure from and that you perhaps may look forward to is happening in the near future.”
    We´ll se what happens.

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    Dan June 11, 2013, 5:47 am

    Ross…Do you still teach SRT or just pattern language?

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    Magnus June 12, 2013, 2:25 pm

    I´ll let you know. Meanwhile I was doing some studying, digging out patterns so I learn them properly. I had this thought on patterns, let me know what you Think:
    “At the core of the delivery of language patterns is your intent. Patterns are not techniques you do as a way of hiding your intent but a way of communicating your intent. Even though the communication is mainly on the subconscious level where it counts your intent is not necessarily hidden on the conscious level.”

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    Stephen November 8, 2017, 7:24 pm

    Three, okay…

    One thing I find interesting is; have you ever noticed, a person can completely close off their logical mind, when they really want to feel indulgence, pleasure and desire? It’s like you feel the need to immediately act upon it right now, when it’s right in front of you. It can also get really hard to resist.

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