Dear Seeker of Success,
Oftentimes I am asked to sum up Speed Seduction® in a nutshell.
Well, It’s basically about two things.
First, knowing how to talk to women in suggestive ways that lead and excite their imaginations.
Second, and just as important, is knowing how to do that in a conversational framework that makes it all seem like a normal, natural conversation.
It’s the second part that I’d like to discuss with you now.
The 3-Deep Principle; Your Key
To Massive Get Laid Success
One of the main techniques of Speed Seduction® is to describe the state or states we want a woman in.
Let’s stop for a sec for a pop quiz, to see if you understand this important point. Circle the right answer.
Describing states to a woman is important because:
(A) It distracts her attention from the fact that we are whacking off under the table.
(B) It shows her how clever and smart we are
(C) It gives her an intellectual understanding of the subject matter.
(D) There’s no difference between a powerful set of directions and a skillful description; describing puts HER in the state or states.
Ok. We all answered D, right?
Now that we are SURE you understand that principle, let me give you another one; when it comes to suggestions, commands, presuppositions or whatever else you are using, it’s extremely powerful and effective to “stack” them at least THREE levels deep.
See, what happens, for reasons I’m not even sure of, is once the mind accepts three examples, descriptions, suggestions, etc, all headed in the same direction, it just can’t resist. It accepts these as being its own, and therefore it tends to….
….Overpoweringly Act On Them!
Is that fair? Is it right to overwhelmingly mind-f@@k a woman in that way? Isn’t it enough to gently nudge a woman’s mind in the right direction…the most gentle, caring little push so that she naturally finds her way to us with a bare bones minimum of suggestion on our part?
Suuuuuure it is…and, hold on a sec while I take this call from the Easter Bunny!
Listen; I’m all for subtlety, but ya gotta use these tools powerfully.
Tou can be gentle later…when she’s gobbling your tube steak!
Peace,
RJ
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Thank you for sharing this, Ross! It sounds as a very interesting concept, and I want to give it a try. A pattern I thought out could be:
Many people think that it takes time to get connected to someone. But in reality you can feel a powerful connection and attraction for someone as soon as you meet him (point to yourself).
For instance, has it ever happened to you to feel a sudden connection … like a cord of light that joins you and him, and it glows more and more as you keep hearing him?
It’s not necessary that you become at once so attracted and fascinated to somebody (point to yourself) that you, I don’t know, want to marry him or become his best friend. But at least you can feel connected enough to wish to see this person again, and develop a rapport with him.
Describing states to a woman is a really powerful tip. We need to get to their emotional side and bypass their overly logical mind. This is the key to it all.
Three the hard way – triple trouble
I watched the complete video course SSRTSWW this past weekend, did i learn any new skills that i could use to improve my situation? yes i did, but i can`t remember watching any thing about `conversational frameworks` i took notes while i was watching and i just can`t seem to find anything along these lines maybe i just need to be directed into the right direction…
@Robert, email me at ross@seduction.com Give me a few days as I’m flying to Europe and need to get there and settled in.
RJ.. I really love the quizzes! I remember in your BHSC.. you had several quizzes… You should make more of ’em.. Like a couple hundred questions and spread them out.. I.e. we read/watch some material.. and then take a quiz. I’d pay extra for it.
I like them because they always reveal new insights and associations.. especially in the way you supply the answers. Eg. the actual wording of the correct answer itself reveals new insights AND the other wrong answers of which some could seem true.. but in fact they are not and I become aware: E.g. “Oh.. yeah, definitely NOT to give her an intellectual understanding.”
@Mat – you may have your chance. After I get back from Europe I’m working on a couple things. More to follow.
So this girl I met is going on a one week holiday and she brings a lot of books to read. Really looking forward to it. So I find this poem called “Reading on the beach”. I record reading it and attach it to a text message. It contains some nice metaphor and ambiguities but it´s also there as a cover for the textmessage:
“As you stand at work you may notice your mind wandering off to something you´re longing for, something you know you get pleasure from and that you perhaps may look forward to is happening in the near future.”
We´ll se what happens.
@Magnus, please report back, either here or email me at ross@seduction.com
Ross…Do you still teach SRT or just pattern language?
I´ll let you know. Meanwhile I was doing some studying, digging out patterns so I learn them properly. I had this thought on patterns, let me know what you Think:
“At the core of the delivery of language patterns is your intent. Patterns are not techniques you do as a way of hiding your intent but a way of communicating your intent. Even though the communication is mainly on the subconscious level where it counts your intent is not necessarily hidden on the conscious level.”
Three, okay…
One thing I find interesting is; have you ever noticed, a person can completely close off their logical mind, when they really want to feel indulgence, pleasure and desire? It’s like you feel the need to immediately act upon it right now, when it’s right in front of you. It can also get really hard to resist.