Dear Seeker of Success,
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On one of our calls, a student who is a professional chef told me he was struggling with using language patterns.
I told him that since he was passionate about cooking and food, he ought to use that. After all, chicks love food and eating and the sexual metaphors are just all over the place.
Well, he followed my advice, and here is his Sarge report:
I want to share some patterns, openers, non seqiturs, etc…, that I have been using with suck-sess since you turned me on to a new approach in our very first coaching call!
Real quickly I’ll fill you in – on coaching call #1 I explained that I was a professional Chef – and he immediately reacted telling me what a great asset I had and that I needed to start utilizing my passion for cooking and knowledge to interact with HB’s and just add in the proper SS language skills and a lot of sexual metaphor.
Well the next day it hit me like a ton of bricks falling on me – I thought to myself “Why in the hell didn’t you think of this before?” I was so wrapped up in the SS, standard patterns, getting in state and NLP that I never even thought of implementing what was already a part of me.
What a HUGE difference – because I am truly passionate about what I do the beauty of it is that when I begin talking about food and cooking I go into state myself – and I’ve noticed, now that you has made me so aware of vibes and energies, that women will pick up on the passionate state I’m in and actually want to share or join in on my vibe – it truly works like magic!
I strongly recommend if any of your students are stuck or having any problem getting into the right state when interacting with women – lean on something you are already passionate about or something that excites you a lot – the state will come automatically and the HB’s will pick up on it! – I am very fortunate because I have yet to meet women who will not talk about food or cooking – especially with a Chef.
So what I will do is translate some language patterns over for guys that aren’t Chefs – into verse that they could use anyway. For those who aren’t Chefs I recommend using them in the following ways –
1) Just be a guy who loves food and loves to cook –
2) Tell a 3rd person story about a friend of yours who is a Chef
3) Talk about this Chef you saw on the internet who said…………
4) If you are a Chef than translating back to 1st person should come natural
OK – now before I get into any of the openers and patterns – I want to sort of play coach here – and what I’m going to do is give you the cart before the horse – and I have a good reason for that – you see in the field when I was coming up with these patterns I noticed how much sexual suggestion and content food and cooking naturally have – so I thought I had better come up with a good reaction when women pick up on it to early and say “Hey – your talking about sex!!” So I came up with an obstacle jumper and sure enough about a week later I had an HB in the grocery store say just that – sure enough I manifested my own future – but being a former military man I know that re-enforcements must be in place before the battle even begins – so here it is – I strongly suggest you have this weapon in your arsenal before you begin to use any of the patterns I place in this thread.
Reinforcement (This can be used when she brings up sexual content of any pattern your using)
Her: “Hey your talking about sex aren’t you?”
You: Stay quiet – look away from her as though your in deep thought for about 5 seconds – then look back at her and say “You know what – I never really thought about it but your right – you can relate this to sex – I never really recognized that – but I like the way you just did…(pause)….You know, if you can pull sexual content out of a subject like food or cooking…that tells me something about you…(pause)…that tells me you having a very creative and intelligent mind structure and I find that extremely attractive in a women…..Its just that intelligent women know exactly what they want and they usually want it right now because you know being decisive and aggressive is easy when your smart enough to do it now. We really owe it to ourselves to spend more time together enjoying this connection.. because there is nothing more stimulating than interacting and talking with an intelligent person”
The first time I used this on a young lady in the market she replied “You know I have a Boyfriend, but……and then she paused – while she paused I jumped in and said – “but you would really like to spend more time with me just talking and hanging out, enjoying this great connection we made and learning more about my passion for food and cooking and how I may be able to inject some of my passion into you?”
Result – Phone#, next day coffee – where I talked about wine – next day a wine bar – we had 1 glass of wine each – she paid – and then we had to go by her place to feed her cat! – Trust me the kitty got fed!!!!! More than once!
I love the above response so much sometimes I’m getting very sexual on purpose so the do say “Hey – your talking about sex” It throws the ball right back in their own court and actually gets them thinking they have the dirty mind and their the aggressor!!
Ok I’ll list a couple of food conversations now.
My new Non Sequitur
You should know Ross’s non sequitur “Are you a roller, folder or tosser?” that leads into a fantasy vacation – well I’ve switched it into a question that leads to food.
You: “Let me ask you a question – on a rooftop overlooking the city, in the woods next to a campfire or on a blanket at the beach?”
Her: “What are you talking about?”
You: “Lets say its six months from now – and I decided by now that I do like you – and we have a wonderful connection going – and then you could look back at say today as being the beginning of that connection, understand? So 6 months have gone by and your birthday is near and I decide you might deserve to have me cook for you……..after I prepare the most delicious, mouth watering meal that is going to stimulate all your senses and satisfy all your cravings……where do you want me to give it to you…on a rooftop overlooking the city, in the woods next to a campfire or on a blanket at the beach?”
Then you just let her start to go with it and you’re already in the whole fantasy with her.
My favorite grocery store opener
When you spot a hottie – watch for the next item she picks up and just say to her “Excuse me – how are you going to prepare that” – (I haven’t met one yet not nice enough to start explaining) then say “My dad lied to me it’s not true” and when she responds “what?” say “he always told me beautiful women didn’t know anything about food or cooking – you just proved him wrong” when she giggles I give her the “I’m just kidding – he didn’t say that – I’m glad you laughed though – I noticed you standing here and I wanted to meet the person wrapped in all that pretty – I’m glad I did, I’m Mickey”
Then I will say “But seriously I am a chef and I’m always very interested in how other people enjoy their food” and then I will just start interacting with her on the subject of food and how I prepare it and get the conversation going…then I use strong sexual suggestion in all my descriptions and stories about cooking.
Trust me they’re juicy, tender and just cum naturally!
Chef
Ok, RJ here again. Pretty great stuff, isn’t it?
Do you see the progress he made when I redirected him to all of the great resources he had in his own experience to make up his own patterns?
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. This guy did so well with this stuff, wouldn’t you say?
He built upon the foundation I lay inside Rapid and Total Success With Women.
My comment is simple. The Chef is a master of Ross’s work. He is using many many concepts and patterns. Not only does he understand how they work, but he has unlocked a concept that when using several patterns and processes that they multiply. For example 10 plus 10 plus 20 = 40 , but 10 times 10 times 20 = 2000. My advice, use what Neil Straus called the atomic bomb, Synasthesia.. Add that to the patterns and you are a Grand Master. Good Luck
@David
Well put and exactly my point. Knowing the “how” is as important / more important than rote memorization.
Hey Mr. Chef,
You just have opened a new’direction in my mind to explore what I can enjoy tasting more & more with this new tasty language to a point where it feels so good in my mouth. 😉
Ross, thanks for sharing this.
Kudos