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    double t September 16, 2010, 5:35 pm

    Gotta agree RJ, was out two weeks ago and this sweet hottie and I connected nicely at a karaoke bar. Nearly no effort. A week later initiated contact with another hottie, same bar, after a brief conversation she just walked away. NEXT!!!

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    DANNY September 16, 2010, 7:54 pm

    Good idea Ross. I am sitting here at the computer. I am also stuck with this job. But hey, since I am going to be here for another hour anyway, I might as might relax, get into whatever state, and ENJOY. Hmmm…fun and playful…understanding of her world…commanding and leading…vulnerable and authentic. Hmmm…so many decisions in life.

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    Grey September 16, 2010, 10:57 pm

    G’day Ross,

    Process is the name of the game. If it did not work this time then your process you used in this instance was not correct – get another process. Remember I have found that a process I used on a women several months ago is now produciung results – as you do not know what her state is at the time that you used the process- she may have been interested and was not in a situration at that timme to act on her interest.

    Use the process- just because you did not get an instance result does not mean that it did not have an effect. It could mean that the effect could not be displayed at that time. Knowing this is one of the secert to confidence – it is not you that is be refuted rather the process. Sometimes the process take time to work.

    See Ya

    Grey

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    DANNY September 17, 2010, 2:21 pm

    Analogies and Metaphors. Here’s one. I occasionally go hiking in the Sierra. All I carry in my fanny-pack is a space-blanket, a few candy bars and fishing tackle. Here’s the deal on catching fish at 10,000 feet. Take one salmon egg put it on a hook, too big for the fish to swallow. Attach to a 10ft piece of fishing line, toss it in and here they come. That’s all it takes. You don’t need a lot of fishing gear. If the fish that bites is too small, unhook it and toss it back. The small fry you toss back might not like the feeling of that hook, but they go back into the lake, none the worse for ware.

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    Nog September 17, 2010, 4:11 pm

    Hey Ross and guys!

    Just the same way that Ross has always said that there are no rejections, just opportunities to see if she has good taste, another way to see this is to look at it as if you’re . . . .

    “planting a seed”

    In EVERY SINGLE CASE where she wasn’t interested, I would ALWAYS leave a kind comment like ” Hey, I know what it’s like when you’re preoccupied with important stuff” ” maybe later when the rain stops I hand in this raincheck” AND then saw the same gal a time later say; “HEY there I got that rain check in my pocket” She smiles and lets me take it from there.

    Even when she is a frost queen, just the fact that I remember her is a toe in the door.

    I’ll make a joke or funny comment and she’ll usually THAW!!!

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